Elizabeth Renkert My beloved sorority, Kappa Kappa Gamma, where I felt at home and safe and was allowed to be vulnerable, betrayed me. National leadership demanded that my chapter initiate a man, saying that his self-identification as a woman was grounds for his initiation. These leaders threatened to expel us, labeling us bigots and transphobes, if we did not follow their agenda. His new member acceptance process was upended from normal procedures; not only considering the bullying we endured, but his grade point average alone would have eliminated any woman from membership.