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Terry Martin Hekker, Whose First Book Praised Stay-at-Home Moms, Dies at 92 - eyeswideopen - Nov 21 2025 https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/terry-martin-hekker-whose-first-book-praised-stay-at-home-moms-dies-at-92/ar-AA1QTCkP Quote:Her first book, published in 1979 was called “Ever Since Adam & Eve: The Satisfactions of Housewifery and Motherhood in the Age of Do-Your-Own-Thing.” It touted the gifts of motherhood and the rewards of housekeeping in an era where women had long come to accept feminist philosophies espoused decades earlier by a former Grandview-on-Hudson neighbor named Betty Friedan. Appreciate that she was courageous enough to acknowledge her mistake. First NY Times opinion essay: (1977) https://www.nytimes.com/1977/12/20/archives/the-satisfactions-of-housewifery-and-motherhood-in-an-age-of.html Second (2006, post-divorce) https://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/01/fashion/sundaystyles/paradise-lost-domestic-division.html Audio interview with her in 2006: https://www.wbur.org/onpoint/2006/01/12/a-warning-from-a-desperate-houswife RE: Careers Terry Martin Hekker, Whose First Book Praised Stay-at-Home Moms, Dies at 92 - eyeswideopen - Nov 21 2025 Archive links for the NYTimes articles: https://archive.ph/TTrEd https://archive.ph/4wQN6 RE: Terry Martin Hekker, Whose First Book Praised Stay-at-Home Moms, Dies at 92 - Elsacat - Nov 22 2025 I've never heard of her before but enjoyed her 2006 essay you linked to. I love that her follow-up book was indeed titled "Disregard First Book." In this time of tradwife influencers and pushes to bring back the Christian Conservative Family, it's a good idea for women to revisit the wisdom of those who trod the path before and found it unexpectedly full of tigers at the end. |