Social Media “AITAH For Moving To An Apt Building With A Concierge [...] So I'm Not Forced To Babysit My Half and Step Siblings”
Social Media “AITAH For Moving To An Apt Building With A Concierge [...] So I'm Not Forced To Babysit My Half and Step Siblings”
Oct 1 2025, 6:28 PM
Woman spent her whole life, including her childhood, being used as a babysitter by her parents, at the neglect of her own life.
HardWrkMksSoftLife I'm sorry I'm being really short with my explanation of what's happening. I'm on my mobile phone. My dad just left the building and he's blowing up my phone while I'm trying to type this out.
So I 23F have spent the last 3yrs being forced to babysit my step and half siblings bcu parents would just drop them off at my place with no warning. It used to be when I lived with them I was forced to babysit and they didn't care if I missed school or work, etc. There were times when I was a minor I would kiss so much school for having to go back and forth to different parents house (my parents are divorced and remarried) to babysit CPS for involved bc off my truancy from school. Then I was grounded for them being put under investigation. They were forced to send me back to school but then I had to come home (to whoever had custody of me that week) and babaysit, cook, clean, etc. while keeping my grades up so they didn't get in trouble.
Fast forward I moved into my own place when I was 19. My friends dad owned property and knew my situation and gave me a good deal on one of his apartments way below market value . Then my parents would drop my siblings off at my apartment with no warning. I lost my last job because of it and all my parents said was good bc now I could babysit full time. I finally put my foot down and my father attacked me, and back slapped me telling me he didn't care how old I was I was to do as he said.
My boyfriend told me to move in with him because his apartment building has a concierge where you have to be introduced and the tenant has to agree to let you up. So I sold all my stuff and moved in with my BF, he had me put on the lease after finding a job ( I was so lucky to get this one more pay and benefits) and let my friends dad know the situation, he let me put if my lease no problem.
My dad was just downstairs with his my step and half siblings from him ( 5 kids ranging in ages 3-10) trying to get up, I told the concierge they are never allowed up and if they don't leave to call the cops. So that's what they did. Now my dad and his wife and blowing up my phone saying I'm and ungrateful asshole for pulling this stunt and my ass is grass when they see me. Im currently waiting for my BF to come home so he can escort me to the police station to make a report and possibly see about getting a restraining order. My father is a really big guy so I'm really scared. I don't think I'm the AH but I just wanted to check and see my BF and friends say I'm not but IDK part of me feels like I am IDKY. So please am I the AH. If I left and holes in what happened you can ask in comments I have the cliff notes version bc of character count.
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Woman spent her whole life, including her childhood, being used as a babysitter by her parents, at the neglect of her own life.
HardWrkMksSoftLife I'm sorry I'm being really short with my explanation of what's happening. I'm on my mobile phone. My dad just left the building and he's blowing up my phone while I'm trying to type this out.
So I 23F have spent the last 3yrs being forced to babysit my step and half siblings bcu parents would just drop them off at my place with no warning. It used to be when I lived with them I was forced to babysit and they didn't care if I missed school or work, etc. There were times when I was a minor I would kiss so much school for having to go back and forth to different parents house (my parents are divorced and remarried) to babysit CPS for involved bc off my truancy from school. Then I was grounded for them being put under investigation. They were forced to send me back to school but then I had to come home (to whoever had custody of me that week) and babaysit, cook, clean, etc. while keeping my grades up so they didn't get in trouble.
Fast forward I moved into my own place when I was 19. My friends dad owned property and knew my situation and gave me a good deal on one of his apartments way below market value . Then my parents would drop my siblings off at my apartment with no warning. I lost my last job because of it and all my parents said was good bc now I could babysit full time. I finally put my foot down and my father attacked me, and back slapped me telling me he didn't care how old I was I was to do as he said.
My boyfriend told me to move in with him because his apartment building has a concierge where you have to be introduced and the tenant has to agree to let you up. So I sold all my stuff and moved in with my BF, he had me put on the lease after finding a job ( I was so lucky to get this one more pay and benefits) and let my friends dad know the situation, he let me put if my lease no problem.
My dad was just downstairs with his my step and half siblings from him ( 5 kids ranging in ages 3-10) trying to get up, I told the concierge they are never allowed up and if they don't leave to call the cops. So that's what they did. Now my dad and his wife and blowing up my phone saying I'm and ungrateful asshole for pulling this stunt and my ass is grass when they see me. Im currently waiting for my BF to come home so he can escort me to the police station to make a report and possibly see about getting a restraining order. My father is a really big guy so I'm really scared. I don't think I'm the AH but I just wanted to check and see my BF and friends say I'm not but IDK part of me feels like I am IDKY. So please am I the AH. If I left and holes in what happened you can ask in comments I have the cliff notes version bc of character count.
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