[Split] Efficacy of teaching English to Afghan women and girls
[Split] Efficacy of teaching English to Afghan women and girls
(Aug 22 2025, 8:55 AM)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.
Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?
Fact is, fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.
Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.
Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.
What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?
(Aug 22 2025, 8:55 AM)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.
Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?
Fact is, fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.
Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.
Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.
What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?
Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.
We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?
(Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.
We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?
(Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.
We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?
Again with the appeal to emotion of “well, if you actually care.”
Again, how many Afghan single females have left in 2025? The Trump admin is trying to get rid of the ones already here, you think they’ll tolerate more?
Again, not ad hominem.
What people have failed to consider is how dangerous offering English language non taliban programs to girls actually is, particularly content sourced in the west. North Korea has straight up killed teenagers looking at South Korean soap operas. The NK doesn’t even care about sex—their next president will be female—NEARLY as much as the Taliban. Which most of these girls are living under with no hope to escape.
A project I could get behind is a safe birth clinic.
Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.
@WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.
Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.
(Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM)Clover @WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.
Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.
so, it’s
Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.
You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.
This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.
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Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.
But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want.
A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran. It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English.
One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.
A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.
(Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM)Clover @WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.
Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.
so, it’s
Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.
You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.
This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.
Too lazy to log onto Kozlik for this message. Consider this an official warning.
Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.
But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want.
A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran. It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English.
One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.
A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.
(Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM)Wrongtoy Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.
But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want.
A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran. It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English.
One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.
A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.
A Mentor Interview with Victory Afghanistan On the family side, most of these students have great support from their parents and their siblings if they’re attending classes, and they’re very supportive of them. [...] It might not be the case for 100% of all the students, but for most of them, their family is supporting them.
(Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM)Wrongtoy Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.
But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want.
A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran. It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English.
One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.
A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.
A Mentor Interview with Victory Afghanistan On the family side, most of these students have great support from their parents and their siblings if they’re attending classes, and they’re very supportive of them. [...] It might not be the case for 100% of all the students, but for most of them, their family is supporting them.
Wrongtoy, just stop. Lol.
Edited to be a little more constructive: There's a certain irony in tearing down an organization started by and run by Afghan women, for Afghan women, saying that they're doing it all wrong and they're only hurting themselves and making big mistakes, and that you as a foreigner know what they really need and should actually be focused on. Hmm... What is it, though? Can't quite put my finger on it... 🤔
Context: This thread was split from the original post "Teaching English to Afghan women and girls"
The issue here is that by reaching out in a good hearted way, you could get the girls reaching back killed. North Korea has already done that by executing kids. Afghanistan has a hard on for female ones, literally, whereas nk does not.
This campaign going live over Western social media just means a male taliban supporter has already seen it. It’s a direct challenge to their masculization. As opposed to one in Arabic, which most Muslims are encouraged to know. The recitation of Quran verses is a priority among even female children, and having a working knowledge of the language isn’t a red flag like English is.
I would imagine they don’t prioritize eng,Suh speaking even among the men.