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Aug 22 2025, 9:44 AM
#11
(Aug 22 2025, 8:55 AM)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.

Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?

Fact is,  fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.

Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.

Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.

What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?

 If you actually read what I said, I never wrote that you called me a liar or exaggerator. I said you were using lies and exaggerations to make a point. There's a big difference there.  You misrepresented other people's statements. That is being very dishonest to further your point.

And yes, most Afghan women are stuck. No one denied that. But some can get out, many through university positions. It's very challenging and it doesn't always work out. But if often does. You can choose to ignore that. But perhaps leave the women alone who are trying to make a difference. Because these programs are working for many of the girls and women in them. 

And you think some of these students are in a covert mission to spread the Taliban's ideology in the West by taking high school classes online, applying to universities, paying the visa fees, flights, et and then going through the dangerous process of leaving Afghanistan? Really? Perhaps consider that many women in Afghanistan do not agree with the Taliban, and have been ignored by the world as their government strips away their basic human rights. 

You were saying earlier that 'a bit of English' won't help. Now it could be part of some plot? 

Has it occurred to you that these girls and women are seeking a better life? They're not a class of Aunt Lydia's (wow, are you trying to be as insulting as possible?). They are girls and young women who are trying to continue their education in an oppressive society. And to add insult to injury, if they can get out, they often have to deal with ignorant people who don't understand who they are, they culture, and where they came from.....

Oh, and fact: there are fortunately organizations and communities that choose to rally around these women, and help them raise funds to travel, pay tuition, rent etc. I know of several in Canada, Ireland, the UK, and the US, though the ones in the US now have to contend with the racist ban that Trump enacted earlier this summer. These people want to help, and they are helping girls and women start new lives outside of Afghanistan. 

Though I'm not sure why I'm even saying this. You don't seem to be arguing in good faith.
ExitStageLeft
Aug 22 2025, 9:44 AM #11

(Aug 22 2025, 8:55 AM)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.

Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?

Fact is,  fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.

Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.

Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.

What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?

 If you actually read what I said, I never wrote that you called me a liar or exaggerator. I said you were using lies and exaggerations to make a point. There's a big difference there.  You misrepresented other people's statements. That is being very dishonest to further your point.

And yes, most Afghan women are stuck. No one denied that. But some can get out, many through university positions. It's very challenging and it doesn't always work out. But if often does. You can choose to ignore that. But perhaps leave the women alone who are trying to make a difference. Because these programs are working for many of the girls and women in them. 

And you think some of these students are in a covert mission to spread the Taliban's ideology in the West by taking high school classes online, applying to universities, paying the visa fees, flights, et and then going through the dangerous process of leaving Afghanistan? Really? Perhaps consider that many women in Afghanistan do not agree with the Taliban, and have been ignored by the world as their government strips away their basic human rights. 

You were saying earlier that 'a bit of English' won't help. Now it could be part of some plot? 

Has it occurred to you that these girls and women are seeking a better life? They're not a class of Aunt Lydia's (wow, are you trying to be as insulting as possible?). They are girls and young women who are trying to continue their education in an oppressive society. And to add insult to injury, if they can get out, they often have to deal with ignorant people who don't understand who they are, they culture, and where they came from.....

Oh, and fact: there are fortunately organizations and communities that choose to rally around these women, and help them raise funds to travel, pay tuition, rent etc. I know of several in Canada, Ireland, the UK, and the US, though the ones in the US now have to contend with the racist ban that Trump enacted earlier this summer. These people want to help, and they are helping girls and women start new lives outside of Afghanistan. 

Though I'm not sure why I'm even saying this. You don't seem to be arguing in good faith.

Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM
#12
Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?
Edited Aug 22 2025, 10:17 AM by Wrongtoy.
Wrongtoy
Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM #12

Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

Aug 22 2025, 10:26 AM
#13
(Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

Is there a reason you are unable to look these things up yourself? or reread the comments you obviously ignored? You have also not addressed any of the things I said. And no, I am coming to this conversation without using lies, exaggerations, or ignorance to make a point. 

This program, as I and others have said, helps girls and women continue to educations, apply to universities, scholarships, etc. It helps them secure positions and financial assistance. 

If you actually care, perhaps look some of these programs up. Perhaps also consider reading or listening to testimonials from girls and women who have left. You'll find they don't fit the idea that you have of them. 

Good luck with everything.
ExitStageLeft
Aug 22 2025, 10:26 AM #13

(Aug 22 2025, 10:16 AM)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

Is there a reason you are unable to look these things up yourself? or reread the comments you obviously ignored? You have also not addressed any of the things I said. And no, I am coming to this conversation without using lies, exaggerations, or ignorance to make a point. 

This program, as I and others have said, helps girls and women continue to educations, apply to universities, scholarships, etc. It helps them secure positions and financial assistance. 

If you actually care, perhaps look some of these programs up. Perhaps also consider reading or listening to testimonials from girls and women who have left. You'll find they don't fit the idea that you have of them. 

Good luck with everything.

Aug 22 2025, 11:43 AM
#14
Again with the appeal to emotion of “well, if you actually care.”

Again, how many Afghan single females have left in 2025? The Trump admin is trying to get rid of the ones already here, you think they’ll tolerate more?

Again, not ad hominem.

What people have failed to consider is how dangerous offering English language non taliban programs to girls actually is, particularly content sourced in the west. North Korea has straight up killed teenagers looking at South Korean soap operas. The NK doesn’t even care about sex—their next president will be female—NEARLY as much as the Taliban. Which most of these girls are living under with no hope to escape.

A project I could get behind is a safe birth clinic.
Edited Aug 22 2025, 11:45 AM by Wrongtoy.
Wrongtoy
Aug 22 2025, 11:43 AM #14

Again with the appeal to emotion of “well, if you actually care.”

Again, how many Afghan single females have left in 2025? The Trump admin is trying to get rid of the ones already here, you think they’ll tolerate more?

Again, not ad hominem.

What people have failed to consider is how dangerous offering English language non taliban programs to girls actually is, particularly content sourced in the west. North Korea has straight up killed teenagers looking at South Korean soap operas. The NK doesn’t even care about sex—their next president will be female—NEARLY as much as the Taliban. Which most of these girls are living under with no hope to escape.

A project I could get behind is a safe birth clinic.

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Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM
#15
@WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM #15

@WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM
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(Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM)Clover @WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

so, it’s 

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.

But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want. 

A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran.  It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English. 

One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.

A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency  being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.
Edited Aug 22 2025, 10:31 PM by Wrongtoy.
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Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM #16

(Aug 22 2025, 4:35 PM)Clover @WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

so, it’s 

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.

But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want. 

A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran.  It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English. 

One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.

A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency  being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.

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Aug 25 2025, 7:30 PM
#17
(Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM)Wrongtoy Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.

But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want. 

A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran.  It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English. 

One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.

A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency  being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.

Is there a reason why you didn't write this comment initially? Is there a reason why two pages of sealioning and fallacy-fallacying was preferrable over just writing one full post on why you think this program is not beneficial and another solution you think would be more beneficial and why? So that the thread didn't need to degrade to this point? If your unwavering opinion was always going to be "this program is bad", then just state why you think so outright rather than baiting people into Internet arguments over many comments and dragging down the whole thread in the process.

Regarding the risks of doing this program, I am quite sure the Afghan women and girls are well aware of the risks of doing such a program and are probably already pretty stable and supported to be able to participate in the first place. Like the 2024 interview excerpt I posted stated:

A Mentor Interview with Victory Afghanistan On the family side, most of these students have great support from their parents and their siblings if they’re attending classes, and they’re very supportive of them. [...] It might not be the case for 100% of all the students, but for most of them, their family is supporting them.

Regarding the fact Western countries are tightening up student visa requirements, perhaps maybe these girls are simply looking to continue their education beyond the 6th grade since the Taliban has banned it? Perhaps some of the women realize that they can do online remote work in their homes by mastering English proficiency and learning skills like tech development? (Or health sciences, like komorebi mentioned they are searching for in her latest update post.)

It's hard to take you seriously, not only based on the way you chose to engage in the thread, but also with various sourceless claims, like North Korean soldiers mass executing "kids" because of ballooned USB sticks of South Korean media. The most I could find regarding this was the execution of a 22-year-old North Korean man for distributing USB sticks, and a 2024 NK News article taking about how the very thing you are claiming happened should be scrutinized. ("Why a report North Korea executed kids for watching K-dramas demands skepticism") At most, I could find reports of two teenage boys executed for watching and distributing South Korean media. But also, if it's okay for Koreans to coordinate with "sympathetic Chinese very quietly", then why is this educational program for Afghan women and girls somehow not "quiet"? They are doing it in the privacy of their homes with supportive families. Like the mentor interviewed stated, there have not been any problems so far with them doing this online education program, and it's been at least a year or two since their program launched.

I'm pretty sure since women are using Instagram and other forms of social media in Afghanistan after the the Taliban took over, that Afghan women know the risks of doing an online education program in the privacy of their own homes, and I think it's kind of patronizing to suggest that people shouldn't be offering to help them continue Afghan women and girls' education past sixth grade because of a bunch of "what if" scenarios based on the authoritarian regimes of other countries, which all have their own politicial motives and methods for oppressing their people.

Regarding the safe birthing clinics, good news, I've found at least three organizations after a cursory internet search that have a focus on promoting safe births and supporting maternity clinics in Afghanistan. I'm sure you can find them too, or share the programs you know of, since you feel this seems to be a better way to support Afghan women? You can go share what you know about such programs by making a new thread in the Women of the World Unite > Middle East forum. This thread is about the Victory Afghanistan program and how women can participate in said program.

I understand the importance of safe birthing clinics especially in a place like Afghanistan with its repressive and nonsensical rules on how women can't go to higher education, but also women can't be seen by male doctors or whatever, are illogical and are directly physically harming women. But do you realize how morbid the optics look on what you are suggesting in this thread? "Hey, instead of helping women and girls continue their education after a horrendously misogynistic regime took over their country and severely limited their rights, let's help those women have babies in said country that is now ruled under a horrendously misogynistic regime that severely limited their rights!" Like, I "get it," Afghan women deserve to have safe births, but it just feels horrible. It feels horrible to hear "no no no, connecting with women and girls who only four years ago were able to go school and helping them continue their schooling is a bad idea, instead let's help them have babies safely in that very same place their rights have been taken away." It's bizarre and demoralizing. Most important, it doesn't need to be an either-or thing. Both these types of programs can exist together to help Afghan women concurrently.

I think I'm most upset at how an optimistic thread on ways to help women in Afghanistan, like actually connect with and help them, was shit on. You do realize that for the "safe birthing clinics" idea, at most what any women here could do is just donate money to the organizations that facilitate those clinics? Whereas this program is actually an opportunity for women to directly help other women. I bristle at attempts to discourage women from helping each other. Women and girls have a right to pursue an education and connect with each other.

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Aug 25 2025, 7:30 PM #17

(Aug 22 2025, 6:26 PM)Wrongtoy Fine, you want me to shut up about an activity that 1. Could put ordinary afghan women in country in danger and 2. Fails to address in any more than an anecdotal way any realistic near term widespread benefit, namely emigration. There is not widespread support for afghani migration to continue in the west.

But he first is especially crucial. Afghanistan would not be the first country to execute teenagers for watching unauthorized English videos. It would be nothing for them to just make an example of a few dozen women, particularly those who have been uploading English language resumes and applications. A society that is not tolerant of women going to the store without a male and a burka is logically expected not to tolerate unauthorized English language resume shopping. And when I mean intolerance, I mean death. And just because they haven’t done it doesn’t mean that they will not, especially as it’s gained western publicity they don’t want. 

A less hazardous approach for the lives of women there would be support of safe birth clinics. This would be, after all, in line with the Taliban’s self interest. Midwifery is in fact one of the few careers women can pursue as it is. Elementary school teaching is the other. I would expect the taliban would want kids knowledgeable about Arabic given that’s the original language of the Quran.  It’s also known by two billion people that can be communicated with without the use of English. 

One of the reasons I feel especially strongly about these types of interventions is by noting the response of North Korea to South Korean activists who ballooned USB sticks of soap operas and videos to them. They rounded up kids and executed them. Thats a PRIMARY reason why said South Korean activists no longer do this anymore. My guess is that they are coordinating with sympathetic Chinese very quietly these days.

A lot of this is necessarily about a subclass that went from English proficiency  being at least an upper middle class marker to it becoming a liability. Trump is actively trying to get people already admitted to this country out. So I bet those Afghanis in the us currently are more focused on not pissing Trump off.

Is there a reason why you didn't write this comment initially? Is there a reason why two pages of sealioning and fallacy-fallacying was preferrable over just writing one full post on why you think this program is not beneficial and another solution you think would be more beneficial and why? So that the thread didn't need to degrade to this point? If your unwavering opinion was always going to be "this program is bad", then just state why you think so outright rather than baiting people into Internet arguments over many comments and dragging down the whole thread in the process.

Regarding the risks of doing this program, I am quite sure the Afghan women and girls are well aware of the risks of doing such a program and are probably already pretty stable and supported to be able to participate in the first place. Like the 2024 interview excerpt I posted stated:

A Mentor Interview with Victory Afghanistan On the family side, most of these students have great support from their parents and their siblings if they’re attending classes, and they’re very supportive of them. [...] It might not be the case for 100% of all the students, but for most of them, their family is supporting them.

Regarding the fact Western countries are tightening up student visa requirements, perhaps maybe these girls are simply looking to continue their education beyond the 6th grade since the Taliban has banned it? Perhaps some of the women realize that they can do online remote work in their homes by mastering English proficiency and learning skills like tech development? (Or health sciences, like komorebi mentioned they are searching for in her latest update post.)

It's hard to take you seriously, not only based on the way you chose to engage in the thread, but also with various sourceless claims, like North Korean soldiers mass executing "kids" because of ballooned USB sticks of South Korean media. The most I could find regarding this was the execution of a 22-year-old North Korean man for distributing USB sticks, and a 2024 NK News article taking about how the very thing you are claiming happened should be scrutinized. ("Why a report North Korea executed kids for watching K-dramas demands skepticism") At most, I could find reports of two teenage boys executed for watching and distributing South Korean media. But also, if it's okay for Koreans to coordinate with "sympathetic Chinese very quietly", then why is this educational program for Afghan women and girls somehow not "quiet"? They are doing it in the privacy of their homes with supportive families. Like the mentor interviewed stated, there have not been any problems so far with them doing this online education program, and it's been at least a year or two since their program launched.

I'm pretty sure since women are using Instagram and other forms of social media in Afghanistan after the the Taliban took over, that Afghan women know the risks of doing an online education program in the privacy of their own homes, and I think it's kind of patronizing to suggest that people shouldn't be offering to help them continue Afghan women and girls' education past sixth grade because of a bunch of "what if" scenarios based on the authoritarian regimes of other countries, which all have their own politicial motives and methods for oppressing their people.

Regarding the safe birthing clinics, good news, I've found at least three organizations after a cursory internet search that have a focus on promoting safe births and supporting maternity clinics in Afghanistan. I'm sure you can find them too, or share the programs you know of, since you feel this seems to be a better way to support Afghan women? You can go share what you know about such programs by making a new thread in the Women of the World Unite > Middle East forum. This thread is about the Victory Afghanistan program and how women can participate in said program.

I understand the importance of safe birthing clinics especially in a place like Afghanistan with its repressive and nonsensical rules on how women can't go to higher education, but also women can't be seen by male doctors or whatever, are illogical and are directly physically harming women. But do you realize how morbid the optics look on what you are suggesting in this thread? "Hey, instead of helping women and girls continue their education after a horrendously misogynistic regime took over their country and severely limited their rights, let's help those women have babies in said country that is now ruled under a horrendously misogynistic regime that severely limited their rights!" Like, I "get it," Afghan women deserve to have safe births, but it just feels horrible. It feels horrible to hear "no no no, connecting with women and girls who only four years ago were able to go school and helping them continue their schooling is a bad idea, instead let's help them have babies safely in that very same place their rights have been taken away." It's bizarre and demoralizing. Most important, it doesn't need to be an either-or thing. Both these types of programs can exist together to help Afghan women concurrently.

I think I'm most upset at how an optimistic thread on ways to help women in Afghanistan, like actually connect with and help them, was shit on. You do realize that for the "safe birthing clinics" idea, at most what any women here could do is just donate money to the organizations that facilitate those clinics? Whereas this program is actually an opportunity for women to directly help other women. I bristle at attempts to discourage women from helping each other. Women and girls have a right to pursue an education and connect with each other.


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komorebi
“I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.” – Audre Lorde
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Aug 25 2025, 8:01 PM
#18
Wrongtoy, just stop. Lol.

Edited to be a little more constructive: There's a certain irony in tearing down an organization started by and run by Afghan women, for Afghan women, saying that they're doing it all wrong and they're only hurting themselves and making big mistakes, and that you as a foreigner know what they really need and should actually be focused on. Hmm... What is it, though? Can't quite put my finger on it... 🤔
Edited Aug 25 2025, 8:03 PM by komorebi.
komorebi
“I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.” – Audre Lorde
Aug 25 2025, 8:01 PM #18

Wrongtoy, just stop. Lol.

Edited to be a little more constructive: There's a certain irony in tearing down an organization started by and run by Afghan women, for Afghan women, saying that they're doing it all wrong and they're only hurting themselves and making big mistakes, and that you as a foreigner know what they really need and should actually be focused on. Hmm... What is it, though? Can't quite put my finger on it... 🤔

Kozlik
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Aug 25 2025, 9:41 PM
#19
Context: This thread was split from the original post "Teaching English to Afghan women and girls"
Kozlik
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Aug 25 2025, 9:41 PM #19

Context: This thread was split from the original post "Teaching English to Afghan women and girls"

Aug 26 2025, 12:22 PM
#20
The issue here is that by reaching out in a good hearted way, you could get the girls reaching back killed. North Korea has already done that by executing kids. Afghanistan has a hard on for female ones, literally, whereas nk does not.

This campaign going live over Western social media just means a male taliban supporter has already seen it. It’s a direct challenge to their masculization. As opposed to one in Arabic, which most Muslims are encouraged to know. The recitation of Quran verses is a priority among even female children, and having a working knowledge of the language isn’t a red flag like English is.

I would imagine they don’t prioritize eng,Suh speaking even among the men.
Wrongtoy
Aug 26 2025, 12:22 PM #20

The issue here is that by reaching out in a good hearted way, you could get the girls reaching back killed. North Korea has already done that by executing kids. Afghanistan has a hard on for female ones, literally, whereas nk does not.

This campaign going live over Western social media just means a male taliban supporter has already seen it. It’s a direct challenge to their masculization. As opposed to one in Arabic, which most Muslims are encouraged to know. The recitation of Quran verses is a priority among even female children, and having a working knowledge of the language isn’t a red flag like English is.

I would imagine they don’t prioritize eng,Suh speaking even among the men.

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