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May 29 2025, 6:32 PM

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A post from r/TwoXChromosomes:
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1kyhlx0/no_vanilla_sex_is_not_boring/

Personal_Poet5720 So last night I was on the phone with the guy I was seeing. I brought up sex and told him that I don’t like BDSM acts. I don’t like choking, spitting, slapping , etc. He said he wasn’t into rough stuff either. He then asked me what I’m into and I told him honestly I’m very vanilla which probably sounds boring………he then asked me the thought provoking question “Wait why is it boring”…. And it took me a few minutes to answer.

Upon realization, I thought that because of pornography people especially women have been conditioned to think vanilla sex or sex that doesn’t involve choking or violence is boring…..when vanilla sex can be just as fun depending on the parties. So actually no vanilla sex is not boring. It can be quite delicious and luxurious haha!

Comments vary, but still a decent amount of BDSM apologia.

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May 29 2025, 6:32 PM #1

A post from r/TwoXChromosomes:
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1kyhlx0/no_vanilla_sex_is_not_boring/

Personal_Poet5720 So last night I was on the phone with the guy I was seeing. I brought up sex and told him that I don’t like BDSM acts. I don’t like choking, spitting, slapping , etc. He said he wasn’t into rough stuff either. He then asked me what I’m into and I told him honestly I’m very vanilla which probably sounds boring………he then asked me the thought provoking question “Wait why is it boring”…. And it took me a few minutes to answer.

Upon realization, I thought that because of pornography people especially women have been conditioned to think vanilla sex or sex that doesn’t involve choking or violence is boring…..when vanilla sex can be just as fun depending on the parties. So actually no vanilla sex is not boring. It can be quite delicious and luxurious haha!

Comments vary, but still a decent amount of BDSM apologia.

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whitemoonselena9b4t

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May 30 2025, 3:38 PM

#2

I can't stand that place. I got banned for posting stats about how tims retain male patterns within violent crimes. All of reddit is a cesspit, including so-called feminist subreddits.

whitemoonselena9b4t

May 30 2025, 3:38 PM #2

I can't stand that place. I got banned for posting stats about how tims retain male patterns within violent crimes. All of reddit is a cesspit, including so-called feminist subreddits.

YesYourNigel

190

May 31 2025, 9:08 AM

#3

I hate how even when they are forced to admit how godawful and toxic the BDSM "community" is, they characterise it as just a bunch of overly enthusiastic ditzy goofs with a skill issue, instead of male rapists and abusers finding the perfect tools to ease into and validate their abuse.

"It's just people thinking 50 Shades is reality" Do you fucking understand what it means to say these people are imitating 50 Shades of Gray but not understanding the "rules" of the game? It means that these women are being straight up abused. They are not living in an erotic novel, they are living in and experiencing this in reality. They don't need to set better rules with their boyfriends and attend BDSM workshops, they need to gtfo and never get into any kind of relationship that fetishises patriarchal violence.

Edited May 31 2025, 9:10 AM by YesYourNigel.

YesYourNigel

May 31 2025, 9:08 AM #3

I hate how even when they are forced to admit how godawful and toxic the BDSM "community" is, they characterise it as just a bunch of overly enthusiastic ditzy goofs with a skill issue, instead of male rapists and abusers finding the perfect tools to ease into and validate their abuse.

"It's just people thinking 50 Shades is reality" Do you fucking understand what it means to say these people are imitating 50 Shades of Gray but not understanding the "rules" of the game? It means that these women are being straight up abused. They are not living in an erotic novel, they are living in and experiencing this in reality. They don't need to set better rules with their boyfriends and attend BDSM workshops, they need to gtfo and never get into any kind of relationship that fetishises patriarchal violence.

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