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Take Action! Teaching English to Afghan women and girls

Take Action! Teaching English to Afghan women and girls

 
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8 hours ago
#31
(9 hours ago)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.

Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?

Fact is,  fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.

Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.

Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.

What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?

 If you actually read what I said, I never wrote that you called me a liar or exaggerator. I said you were using lies and exaggerations to make a point. There's a big difference there.  You misrepresented other people's statements. That is being very dishonest to further your point.

And yes, most Afghan women are stuck. No one denied that. But some can get out, many through university positions. It's very challenging and it doesn't always work out. But if often does. You can choose to ignore that. But perhaps leave the women alone who are trying to make a difference. Because these programs are working for many of the girls and women in them. 

And you think some of these students are in a covert mission to spread the Taliban's ideology in the West by taking high school classes online, applying to universities, paying the visa fees, flights, et and then going through the dangerous process of leaving Afghanistan? Really? Perhaps consider that many women in Afghanistan do not agree with the Taliban, and have been ignored by the world as their government strips away their basic human rights. 

You were saying earlier that 'a bit of English' won't help. Now it could be part of some plot? 

Has it occurred to you that these girls and women are seeking a better life? They're not a class of Aunt Lydia's (wow, are you trying to be as insulting as possible?). They are girls and young women who are trying to continue their education in an oppressive society. And to add insult to injury, if they can get out, they often have to deal with ignorant people who don't understand who they are, they culture, and where they came from.....

Oh, and fact: there are fortunately organizations and communities that choose to rally around these women, and help them raise funds to travel, pay tuition, rent etc. I know of several in Canada, Ireland, the UK, and the US, though the ones in the US now have to contend with the racist ban that Trump enacted earlier this summer. These people want to help, and they are helping girls and women start new lives outside of Afghanistan. 

Though I'm not sure why I'm even saying this. You don't seem to be arguing in good faith.
ExitStageLeft
8 hours ago #31

(9 hours ago)Wrongtoy I never once called you a liar or an exaggerator. Can we just stop with the ad hominems.

Fact is the US is attempting to end TPS status for the small numbers of afghanis brought over. The British are beyond angry at the small number brought in the immediacy of the Kabul retreat. Where are the employer sponsors here? Or the full ride scholarships?

Fact is,  fewer ppl want afghanis than think boys should be in girls sports. 8/10.

Fact is, most Afghani women aren’t getting out of Gilead anytime soon. And has it occurred to no one yet that it is to the Taliban’s advantage to incubate a class of Aunt Lydia’s? Might English language skills not be a part of that? I’m not saying it is or isn’t, but it is a possibility.

Most women in Afghanistan are realistically stuck when it comes to immigration into the West until at least 2028. This isn’t a ad hom, it is a factual statement.

What is your target audience at the moment? Those still in country or ex-pats? If you had to pick one, which would it be?

 If you actually read what I said, I never wrote that you called me a liar or exaggerator. I said you were using lies and exaggerations to make a point. There's a big difference there.  You misrepresented other people's statements. That is being very dishonest to further your point.

And yes, most Afghan women are stuck. No one denied that. But some can get out, many through university positions. It's very challenging and it doesn't always work out. But if often does. You can choose to ignore that. But perhaps leave the women alone who are trying to make a difference. Because these programs are working for many of the girls and women in them. 

And you think some of these students are in a covert mission to spread the Taliban's ideology in the West by taking high school classes online, applying to universities, paying the visa fees, flights, et and then going through the dangerous process of leaving Afghanistan? Really? Perhaps consider that many women in Afghanistan do not agree with the Taliban, and have been ignored by the world as their government strips away their basic human rights. 

You were saying earlier that 'a bit of English' won't help. Now it could be part of some plot? 

Has it occurred to you that these girls and women are seeking a better life? They're not a class of Aunt Lydia's (wow, are you trying to be as insulting as possible?). They are girls and young women who are trying to continue their education in an oppressive society. And to add insult to injury, if they can get out, they often have to deal with ignorant people who don't understand who they are, they culture, and where they came from.....

Oh, and fact: there are fortunately organizations and communities that choose to rally around these women, and help them raise funds to travel, pay tuition, rent etc. I know of several in Canada, Ireland, the UK, and the US, though the ones in the US now have to contend with the racist ban that Trump enacted earlier this summer. These people want to help, and they are helping girls and women start new lives outside of Afghanistan. 

Though I'm not sure why I'm even saying this. You don't seem to be arguing in good faith.

7 hours ago
#32
Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?
Edited 7 hours ago by Wrongtoy.
Wrongtoy
7 hours ago #32

Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

7 hours ago
#33
(7 hours ago)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

Is there a reason you are unable to look these things up yourself? or reread the comments you obviously ignored? You have also not addressed any of the things I said. And no, I am coming to this conversation without using lies, exaggerations, or ignorance to make a point. 

This program, as I and others have said, helps girls and women continue to educations, apply to universities, scholarships, etc. It helps them secure positions and financial assistance. 

If you actually care, perhaps look some of these programs up. Perhaps also consider reading or listening to testimonials from girls and women who have left. You'll find they don't fit the idea that you have of them. 

Good luck with everything.
ExitStageLeft
7 hours ago #33

(7 hours ago)Wrongtoy Again, the ad hominems. I’m arguing with the same faith as you.

We now both stipulate that most women are stuck in Afghanistan, correct? You’ve stated you know more than me, which we shall assume true for the sake of debate. So as to those who are contemporaneously leaving, can you share how that is funded? Are we talking about thousands, hundreds, or tens of women allowed to leave? To where are they allowed to leave?

Is there a reason you are unable to look these things up yourself? or reread the comments you obviously ignored? You have also not addressed any of the things I said. And no, I am coming to this conversation without using lies, exaggerations, or ignorance to make a point. 

This program, as I and others have said, helps girls and women continue to educations, apply to universities, scholarships, etc. It helps them secure positions and financial assistance. 

If you actually care, perhaps look some of these programs up. Perhaps also consider reading or listening to testimonials from girls and women who have left. You'll find they don't fit the idea that you have of them. 

Good luck with everything.

6 hours ago
#34
Again with the appeal to emotion of “well, if you actually care.”

Again, how many Afghan single females have left in 2025? The Trump admin is trying to get rid of the ones already here, you think they’ll tolerate more?

Again, not ad hominem.

What people have failed to consider is how dangerous offering English language non taliban programs to girls actually is, particularly content sourced in the west. North Korea has straight up killed teenagers looking at South Korean soap operas. The NK doesn’t even care about sex—their next president will be female—NEARLY as much as the Taliban. Which most of these girls are living under with no hope to escape.

A project I could get behind is a safe birth clinic.
Edited 6 hours ago by Wrongtoy.
Wrongtoy
6 hours ago #34

Again with the appeal to emotion of “well, if you actually care.”

Again, how many Afghan single females have left in 2025? The Trump admin is trying to get rid of the ones already here, you think they’ll tolerate more?

Again, not ad hominem.

What people have failed to consider is how dangerous offering English language non taliban programs to girls actually is, particularly content sourced in the west. North Korea has straight up killed teenagers looking at South Korean soap operas. The NK doesn’t even care about sex—their next president will be female—NEARLY as much as the Taliban. Which most of these girls are living under with no hope to escape.

A project I could get behind is a safe birth clinic.

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1 hour ago
#35
@WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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1 hour ago #35

@WrongToy Your initial question on how this program was able to exist was answered. You then pivoted to continue to deride the efforts of this program that attempts to help Afghan women and girls continue their education after a misogynistic regime cancelled education past 6th grade for female people.

Wrongtoy As to “dreams” of escaping Afghanistan to the west, those that have haven’t all exactly been “free the burka.” Said women in Europe obediently wearing niquab suggest to male believers that anyone not in one is fair game.

Tf is this? Men are responsible for their own behavior. Do not blame women coerced to wear misogynistic costumes due to their family's long-standing sexist traditions—which can be extremely hard for them to abandon even if they've immigrated—for the depraved behaviors of men.

You then exaggerated the purpose of the program as "So intimating to these women that if they learn a bit of English they’ll just automatically get a student visa in the west is realistically false hope at this time." When ExitStageLeft pointed out your use of exaggerations, you resorted to claiming she's using ad hominems... twice.

This is ridiculous. I don't believe you have been engaging here in good faith. This thread has been derailed enough. Similar to what I said before about making a thread about Gaza if you want to talk about Gaza, if you want to make a thread analyzing what can "actually help" Afghan women because you don't believe this program helps, go do that in a new thread instead of trashing this one.

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1 hour ago
#36
Ooookay... 😅 Not too sure what's been going on in this thread since I was last here, but let's just talk about the volunteer program, yeah?

I'm currently working with four young women, ranging in age from about 16 to 28. All of them had their educations interrupted (obviously), and several have directly expressed unhappiness about it in class. :( They're all very eager to learn, and have also talked about the limitations of online classes and how it's helpful to have someone that you can directly ask questions when you're confused about something. That was what led me to this idea of foundational programming lessons. You can very easily get a crash course in Javascript or webapp development, but they don't really teach foundational concepts like...what is binary? Or like, how does a CPU work, conceptually? Which, I mean, these aren't required knowledge to become a web developer, not at all. But let's say you run into an integer overflow bug...like, how do you even begin to understand what that is until you know integer representation? Or binary arithmetic? Or what a byte is?

And so I was hoping to be able to help them fill these kinds of potential gaps in their understanding, so they don't get completely and utterly lost the first time they hear something like, "A char is a byte." The lessons aren't long enough to go super in-depth, but hopefully it'll give them enough of a framework that, when they encounter a new concept, they'll at least have some idea of where to start looking to understand more.

By the way, the program is looking for mentors who have a background in health or health sciences—it seems they have several classes waiting on that. You'd be helping with the stuff that drdee mentioned before, like career advice, etc., not giving medical advice or anything. It has been interesting and fulfilling helping these women, so if anyone is thinking about applying, please do!
komorebi
“I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.” – Audre Lorde
1 hour ago #36

Ooookay... 😅 Not too sure what's been going on in this thread since I was last here, but let's just talk about the volunteer program, yeah?

I'm currently working with four young women, ranging in age from about 16 to 28. All of them had their educations interrupted (obviously), and several have directly expressed unhappiness about it in class. :( They're all very eager to learn, and have also talked about the limitations of online classes and how it's helpful to have someone that you can directly ask questions when you're confused about something. That was what led me to this idea of foundational programming lessons. You can very easily get a crash course in Javascript or webapp development, but they don't really teach foundational concepts like...what is binary? Or like, how does a CPU work, conceptually? Which, I mean, these aren't required knowledge to become a web developer, not at all. But let's say you run into an integer overflow bug...like, how do you even begin to understand what that is until you know integer representation? Or binary arithmetic? Or what a byte is?

And so I was hoping to be able to help them fill these kinds of potential gaps in their understanding, so they don't get completely and utterly lost the first time they hear something like, "A char is a byte." The lessons aren't long enough to go super in-depth, but hopefully it'll give them enough of a framework that, when they encounter a new concept, they'll at least have some idea of where to start looking to understand more.

By the way, the program is looking for mentors who have a background in health or health sciences—it seems they have several classes waiting on that. You'd be helping with the stuff that drdee mentioned before, like career advice, etc., not giving medical advice or anything. It has been interesting and fulfilling helping these women, so if anyone is thinking about applying, please do!

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