Ways Coeducation Hurts Girls
Ways Coeducation Hurts Girls
(Sep 22 2025, 6:26 PM)taterofdefiance I rarely post here, but this is an interesting subject for me because I've spent a huge portion of my adult life working in education especially with adolescents described by others as 'challenging', meaning I often worked with the kids that others did not want to work with.
I do see the appeal of single sex education. Academically, it is great for girls. And I think there can be positives socially, but unless you are planning to go the separatist route fully, eventually girls are going to have to deal with boys, and the question becomes when and how are you going to do this. Ideally, I wish public education lent itself more to creative solutions because I absolutely do think that girls thrive academically in single sex spaces and getting to experience hobbies and sports without boys around can also be helpful, but I think there are also benefits to experiencing those hobbies and sports in a mixed environment, but from my own observations that varies by age and the student's personality.
I certainly don't have the answers. I can say that I know it is the boys that expose the girls to porn at ridiculously young ages (I've had 10-years-olds get in trouble for showing porn on the school bus!). I've seen the damage to girls' self-esteem and I agree that singe sex education can be helpful, but it is definitely not a cure-all.
(Sep 22 2025, 6:26 PM)taterofdefiance I rarely post here, but this is an interesting subject for me because I've spent a huge portion of my adult life working in education especially with adolescents described by others as 'challenging', meaning I often worked with the kids that others did not want to work with.
I do see the appeal of single sex education. Academically, it is great for girls. And I think there can be positives socially, but unless you are planning to go the separatist route fully, eventually girls are going to have to deal with boys, and the question becomes when and how are you going to do this. Ideally, I wish public education lent itself more to creative solutions because I absolutely do think that girls thrive academically in single sex spaces and getting to experience hobbies and sports without boys around can also be helpful, but I think there are also benefits to experiencing those hobbies and sports in a mixed environment, but from my own observations that varies by age and the student's personality.
I certainly don't have the answers. I can say that I know it is the boys that expose the girls to porn at ridiculously young ages (I've had 10-years-olds get in trouble for showing porn on the school bus!). I've seen the damage to girls' self-esteem and I agree that singe sex education can be helpful, but it is definitely not a cure-all.
I went to all girls schools, and I am so grateful to my mother for her wisdom. I grew confident and outspoken, learned sports and arts, enjoyed friendships I still have today, all without my peers behaving/performing for the boys.
I did not have a problem interacting with men in my non-school life, and none of my school friends had too much of an issue adjusting to co-ed college. Mostly, the complaints were around having to perform femininity, and subdue their confidence/ebullience to please others.