Article Becoming a Bodybuilder at 50 Showed Me That Women Were Never Meant to be Thin
Article Becoming a Bodybuilder at 50 Showed Me That Women Were Never Meant to be Thin
Quote:In fact, for most of human history, women weren’t meant to be thin; they were meant to be strong. Neolithic women had arm bones 11 to 16% stronger than the rowers to 30% greater than typical Cambridge students, according to a 2017 study. Bronze Age women showed a similar pattern, with arm bones up to 13% stronger than rowers.
Quote:Bursts of the “return to skinny” have always surfaced at pivotal moments — right when women are on the brink of claiming more power. It’s no coincidence. The flapper look took hold in the 1920s just as women won the right to vote — a new, boyish silhouette for a new kind of woman, one who was suddenly politically powerful. In the 1960s, Twiggy’s thin, androgynous frame became the face of fashion right as the women’s liberation movement was gaining traction, challenging traditional roles and demanding equality. In the 1990s, heroin chic surged in popularity as women flooded law schools, boardrooms, and newsrooms in record numbers — a visual counterpunch to female ambition.
And now, at a moment when women are redefining aging, owning their midlife, and fighting urgently for reproductive autonomy, the rise of GLP-1 weight-loss drugs feels eerily familiar. Each wave of skinny fixation has echoed like a cultural recoil — a shrinking aesthetic that emerges just as women expand their influence.
Quote:The emerging science paints a clearer picture: women are not the weaker sex. We’re just built differently—and to last.
https://time.com/7293999/bodybuilding-women-skinny-essay/
Quote:In fact, for most of human history, women weren’t meant to be thin; they were meant to be strong. Neolithic women had arm bones 11 to 16% stronger than the rowers to 30% greater than typical Cambridge students, according to a 2017 study. Bronze Age women showed a similar pattern, with arm bones up to 13% stronger than rowers.
Quote:Bursts of the “return to skinny” have always surfaced at pivotal moments — right when women are on the brink of claiming more power. It’s no coincidence. The flapper look took hold in the 1920s just as women won the right to vote — a new, boyish silhouette for a new kind of woman, one who was suddenly politically powerful. In the 1960s, Twiggy’s thin, androgynous frame became the face of fashion right as the women’s liberation movement was gaining traction, challenging traditional roles and demanding equality. In the 1990s, heroin chic surged in popularity as women flooded law schools, boardrooms, and newsrooms in record numbers — a visual counterpunch to female ambition.
And now, at a moment when women are redefining aging, owning their midlife, and fighting urgently for reproductive autonomy, the rise of GLP-1 weight-loss drugs feels eerily familiar. Each wave of skinny fixation has echoed like a cultural recoil — a shrinking aesthetic that emerges just as women expand their influence.
Quote:The emerging science paints a clearer picture: women are not the weaker sex. We’re just built differently—and to last.
Jim Rowley, Crunch Fitness CEO Today’s young women 18-to-34 are strong and social. "Skinny" is not where it’s at.
Quote:And when she catches herself envying a thinner woman at the gym, she says she reminds herself of what she can do—throwing a heavy weight overhead.“And I’ll say, ‘But can she do that?’”
I do appreciate that there is more acceptance of women that isn't just "skinny." Being fit and healthy and encouraging lifting is a good thing.
However, I feel like this article is subtly trying to sell another form of women desiring to appear a certain way. The difference now is that instead of obsessing over calorie counts (r/1200isplenty) and cardio routines, it's high protein meals and weightlifting routines. Not to say that's a bad direction, but this article feels more like a "Century of the Self" attempt at convincing women to go support the fitness industry, but now it's feminist and empowering (which funny enough it technically is, because helping women get stronger is good), unlike the "skinny" fads of prior decades.
In a way, it reminds me of the "torches of freedom" campaign of the 1920s, where smoking industry finally managed to encourage the female demographic to start smoking cigarettes by making it an empowering "free woman" thing. At least with this attempt of detaching toxic masculinity from weightlifting and strength training, it's actually healthy for women. I just still find it interesting.
Jim Rowley, Crunch Fitness CEO Today’s young women 18-to-34 are strong and social. "Skinny" is not where it’s at.
Quote:And when she catches herself envying a thinner woman at the gym, she says she reminds herself of what she can do—throwing a heavy weight overhead.“And I’ll say, ‘But can she do that?’”
Quote:And so what does it matter if some thin woman can't lift a heavy weight over her head? Why does that make her better than her? Why do she need to be "better" than her?
Quote:Cardio is still important for health, like I'm pretty sure weightlifters do jump rope specifically for this reason?
Quote:The "mommies" fits the entire new cultural trend of women now being more successful in academia, careers, etc. while men flounder: men have become floppy helpless babies who have decided women can do everything—be fit af, be well educated, and have a well paying career—while the man leeches off all these benefits in exchange for a "yass queen crush me with your thighs"
Clover, I'm not sure I understand your point? It's feminist and empowering to support what leads to better outcomes for women, even if it's commercialised. I have some misgivings with this article's approach, but the very notion of switching women's goals from starving themselves to putting on muscle is not one of them, and if it's a ploy to sell more gym memberships...so what? If it results in a healthier population, that's a net positive. And lord knows we need more older women with post-menopausal muscle loss picking up actual weights and building actual muscle instead of doing fucking yoga.
I guess my issue is kinda that she doesn't look that different compared to what I'm used to seeing from feminine attractive women? She just looks like a normal woman in shape. On one hand it's good that she doesn't seem to be using steroids like some other bodybuilders, but on the other, she still looks fairly skinny and certainly not like anything outside of normie ideas of attractiveness (complete with makeup and long hair). Like if you look at actual strong people instead of bodybuilders, we're talking world record holders, they often look kinda fatty because their goal is to maximise gains rather than aesthetics.
I actually fear that bodybuilding might be exploited to re-sell eating disorders back to women except under the guise of fitness and health. After all, the key distinction in bodybuilding, as opposed to merely weightlifting and strength training, is that you're trying to minimise your fat percentage. It's not that bodybuilders are so much buffer or stronger than weightlifters, it's that they superficially look that way because they specifically maintain a ridiculously low fat percentage to show off the musculature better. And speaking of, the percentage of fat that women can safely shed is not nearly as high as it is for men.
Quote:And so what does it matter if some thin woman can't lift a heavy weight over her head? Why does that make her better than her? Why do she need to be "better" than her?
Quote:Cardio is still important for health, like I'm pretty sure weightlifters do jump rope specifically for this reason?
Quote:The "mommies" fits the entire new cultural trend of women now being more successful in academia, careers, etc. while men flounder: men have become floppy helpless babies who have decided women can do everything—be fit af, be well educated, and have a well paying career—while the man leeches off all these benefits in exchange for a "yass queen crush me with your thighs"
(Jun 21 2025, 8:29 PM)YesYourNigel Clover, I'm not sure I understand your point? It's feminist and empowering to support what leads to better outcomes for women, even if it's commercialised.Yes, I had made those acknowledgements like disclaimers multiple times throughout my post because I realized how silly my criticisms of this are, since women getting involved in strength training is an overall positive. I still hate consumer culture and the weird ending that tries to pit thin women vs muscular women, so I felt like pointing out my observations. 🤷♀️
(Jun 21 2025, 8:29 PM)YesYourNigel Clover, I'm not sure I understand your point? It's feminist and empowering to support what leads to better outcomes for women, even if it's commercialised.Yes, I had made those acknowledgements like disclaimers multiple times throughout my post because I realized how silly my criticisms of this are, since women getting involved in strength training is an overall positive. I still hate consumer culture and the weird ending that tries to pit thin women vs muscular women, so I felt like pointing out my observations. 🤷♀️
Quote:Like a long distance runner, a bicyclist, a swimmer, a person who does yoga, a hiker, and a person who does strength training could all be considered healthy human beings. Some are stronger than others. Some are thinner than others. Why does it matter, any of these comparisons, if they are all healthy beings?
I think I get what you mean, but it feels fixated on this idea that it's bad for specific trends to pop up because it's "telling people how to live". Certain things are good for your body because that's how our biology works. This fact isn't oppressive just because some people don't like hearing it, or because everyone's choices have to be equally valid. Women preferring cardio is kind of meaningless when they are pushed so incessantly into it for weight loss and beauty reasons and discouraged from strength training because strength is something that will make you ugly and you should leave it to the men. It sounds very "choice feminism" to write it off as just different preferences. I have literally been told by some women that an exercise is bad if you can't smile through it. This is how fucked up women's ideas on fitness are.
It's always good when you see trends alongside gender lines to ask why they are set that way. Usually you will find that men are hogging the most beneficial trends (even if they sometimes take them to self-harming extremes), whereas women are pushed into the shallow end of the pool.
Quote:Like a long distance runner, a bicyclist, a swimmer, a person who does yoga, a hiker, and a person who does strength training could all be considered healthy human beings. Some are stronger than others. Some are thinner than others. Why does it matter, any of these comparisons, if they are all healthy beings?