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Discussion Netflix's Kaos (2024) and Caeneus

Discussion Netflix's Kaos (2024) and Caeneus

 
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Mar 5 2025, 12:00 AM
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Netflix recommended this show that I was totally hooked on called Kaos (and of course, as soon as I finish it, I find out it's been fucking cancelled, fuk u Netflix). In the show's world, the Greek gods are real and it's the modern day. I thought it was a really cool premise.

Anyway. This post is going to contain spoilers for Kaos so if you're interested in watching that show and don't want spoilers, pls leave now cuz I'm not spoiler marking the whole post.



So, I am familiar with the basics of Greek mythology. The "big names" like Zeus, Hera, Hercules, and so on. I was unfamiliar with the story of Caeneus.

So when watching the show, I thought he was just some normal human guy who got sent to the underworld. I thought he was a very "soft/gentle looking" man. Early on in one of the episodes, he talked about his family being part of the Amazons, which make boys leave the group at eleven. But Caeneus mentions to one of the main characters that he left at like 15 or so. And she asked why and he gave an answer about "finding out later" or something and I was like "are they seriously gonna do a trans thing?" And yep, they did a trans thing (which was more certain later on than just that "hinty" line). I figured that small line of dialogue might have been the end of that, but no, in episode 6, there is a flashback to Caeneus when he was younger and living in the compound. And the story goes that his mother "realized who 'he' is" and that "he" needed to leave (since it was a "female only compound" and since "he" has a magical boysoul, "he" could not be there), and that there is a woman in Crete that could "help 'him'" (aka trans him...). It felt like some kind of cheesy "my family accepts me for who I am" TIP fanfiction in the middle of this cool Greek mythology based show. (As a side note, I am amused to find a Reddit thread that had a few people confused about the whole trans storyline.)

Then my partner and I argued about whether or not the actor who played Caeneus is a TIF or a man. My partner was extremely adamant the actor was a man lol. I eventually was like "yeah, I guess he looks quite like a man, a very 'soft' man, but yeah." I thought his voice sounded like a man's. In one episode, he was shirtless for some scenes and I didn't see any mastectomy scars so I was like "oh I guess he is a man?" (No, I guess the actress just got a really high quality mastectomy? Ngl the strange hair growth pattern around the nipples and the large nipples themselves did give me a bit of a pause, but then again, I don't really seek out pictures of bare men's chests, so I figured I just haven't seen enough male chests lol.) So uh, yeah, I was fooled and my partner was definitely fooled. Idk why I want to bring this up, but I guess because on Ovarit they constantly like to say "we can always tell!" and like, I just don't think that's true. They claim TIFs have "froggy voices," I didn't think this TIF had one... There were very few things about Caeneus' actress that made me think they were a TIF. I think she passes as a man quite well. (Though a fair amount of TIFs do, by virtue of it being easier to have women look like men than men look like women.)

Why bring this up? Well, because this show is all about the Greek gods and their stories. A modern retelling of their stories. The Gods and Goddesses are sociopathic violent narcissists, just like in the myths. They are sadistic and cruel and bizarre. It's what makes the show "charming" (as in, unique) and engaging. And while I thought the whole "trans" story was pretty stupid to add in just from my views on transgenderism, when I looked up the actual mythology of Caeneus, I thought it was even more stupid that they chose to contort the original myth into a transgender story.

Side note: this is how Wikipedia writes about the myth of Caeneus:
Wikipedia on Caeneus In Greek mythology, Caeneus [...] was a Lapith hero, ruler of Thessaly, and the father of the Argonaut Coronus. Caeneus was born a girl, Caenis [...], the daughter of Elatus, but after Poseidon had sex with Caenis, she was transformed by Poseidon into an invulnerable man.

I am aware Wikipedia is all-in on the gender woowoo train, so I guess they "positively trans-washed" the myth of Caeneus to remove the fact this Greek hero was raped and that was why she wanted to become a man.

A.S. Kline's Metamorphosis: Bk XII:146-209 Nestor tells the story of Caeneus-Caenis ‘Elatus’s daughter, Caenis, loveliest of the virgins of Thessaly, was famous for her beauty, a girl longed for in vain, the object of many suitors throughout the neighbouring cities and your own (since she was one of your people, Achilles). Perhaps Peleus also would have tried to wed her, but he had already taken your mother in marriage, or she was promised to your father. Caenis would not agree to any marriage, but (so rumour has it) she was walking along a lonely beach, and the god took her by force. When Neptune had enjoyed his new love he said: “Make your wish, without fear of refusal. Ask for what you most want!” (The same rumour mentioned this.)

‘“This injury evokes the great desire never to be able to suffer any such again. Grant I might not be a woman: you will have given me everything,” Caenis said. She spoke the last words in a deeper tone, that might have been the sound of a man’s voice. So it was: the god of the deep ocean had already accepted her wish, and had granted, over and above it, that as a man Caeneus would be protected from all wounds, and never fall to the sword. Caeneus, the Atracides, left, happy with his gifts, and spent his time in manly pastimes, roaming the Thessalian fields.
https://ovid.lib.virginia.edu/trans/Metamorph12.htm#486225989

Patterns of Rape in Ovid’s Metamorphoses by Nikki Bloch Ovid’s seemingly modern understanding of gender and sexuality is perhaps best appreciated in the myth of Caeneus, the mythical hero who was once the beautiful woman Caenis. Raped by Neptune, Caenis is granted the wish to never again be able to suffer in this way, to no longer be a woman (12.202).

Even in the "So confused..." Reddit thread about Caeneus in r/KaosNetflix, someone wrote:
Snoo_58387 I wish they had kept the the original myth about Caeneus. That would provide more complexity to the character and stronger reason to take part of the plan.

For the ones who don't know the myth, which can be found in Ovidius' Metamorphoses, Caeneus was born as a girl, Caenis, who was one day raped by Poseidon. After the assault, the god granted her a wish and Caenis asked to be turned into a man, not to fall victim of rape anymore.

This show pulls no punches with the gods sadistically killing and torturing humans. They also have Hera make Zeus kill his own newly-born demigod baby. And that was more like a footnote than any main plot point. And yet, instead of exploring the violent misogyny of the Gods and what it means to live as a woman in terms of sexual violence and rape culture, through the original myth of Caeneus that could have been told in a modern light, the show writers decided to completely turn this myth into an "uwu twans feelgood" storyline. Sad. Of course, why would they care about shining a light on misogyny and rape culture? That's sooooo passé. I mean, everybody knows that rape of women and misogyny were solved in the modern day when, like the myth of Caeneus, we realized we could "turn women into men!" Praise transgenderism!

I think there are a few things that are even more sad, regarding the actress who plays Caeneus, Misia Butler.

For one, Misia had an interview where she talked about playing Caeneus on Kaos and actually said that learning about Caeneus from a teacher is what encouraged her to transition:
Quote:When asked how he relates to Caeneus' story, Butler shared that the role "spoke to [his] ability to be an empowered trans man:"
Quote:"I remember when I was a kid learning about it in school, and I had a specific teacher who, I think, knew what she was doing. She gave me this translation of this ancient text, and it was this character that was in that text being told that he wasn't good enough because he was born female and he shouldn't be fighting with the men, and then he defeats them all really easily. And I just felt really empowered by that as a story because it spoke to my ability to be an empowered trans man, basically."
 https://thedirect.com/article/kaos-caeneus-trans-netflix-misia-butler-exclusive

Quote:Let’s talk about KAOS. What were your initial thoughts when the series was first mentioned to you?
“In 2018, when they first announced that Charlie Covell was going to be adapting Greek myths into a series on Netflix, pretty much every single one of my friends sent me the link to the news story. They were like, ‘You have to do this!’ And I was like, ‘I mean, imagine if they wrote a part for me. How crazy would that be?!’ Then in 2020 I received the audition sides and discovered that it was a Greek myth that I have been obsessed with since I was a kid. They described the role as a lead and I was like, ‘Oh, no, I’m going to be way too invested in this. This is so scary!’ Then the whole process took a lot longer, but at the beginning of 2022 I finally got the call saying that I’d got the role and I cried. It was insane! Again, fate feels like a really big part of this whole process. I’m still waiting for someone to tell me that it’s all a joke and to pull the rug from underneath me!”

[...]

What was it like to inhabit your character Caeneus?

“It felt so natural. I feel so blessed, not only to have the context of this show and all the amazing people who are involved, but to have a character that really felt like me. It felt like a big privilege. I’ve done bits and pieces before, but this definitely felt like the mammoth of work compared to what I’ve done before. That can be terrifying, but it felt like this character was someone I really understood and really empathized with and that was beautiful.”
https://thequeerreview.com/2024/08/27/interview-misia-butler-kaos-netflix/

I am wondering if the teacher provided Misia with a "trans-washed" version of the Caeneus story back in school, rather than one that points out the character was raped and that's why she wanted to become a man... I mean, no matter how one spins this, it's just all around depressing.

And then, while trying to figure out if the actor who played Caeneus was a TIF or not, I learned Misia Butler is 24 (born in 2001). And on June 28 2019, she posted on Instagram:
misiabutler, Instagram So I may have forgotten that yesterday was my 1 year post op anniversary so I’m posting today
2018-2001 = 17 years old.

Just weirds me out that teenage girls are getting their breasts removed and identifying with Greek myths about women who got raped and wished to be men to avoid being raped/women and mainsteam society is like "yasssssss quee-- I mean king!!". What a world.

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Mar 5 2025, 12:00 AM #1

Netflix recommended this show that I was totally hooked on called Kaos (and of course, as soon as I finish it, I find out it's been fucking cancelled, fuk u Netflix). In the show's world, the Greek gods are real and it's the modern day. I thought it was a really cool premise.

Anyway. This post is going to contain spoilers for Kaos so if you're interested in watching that show and don't want spoilers, pls leave now cuz I'm not spoiler marking the whole post.



So, I am familiar with the basics of Greek mythology. The "big names" like Zeus, Hera, Hercules, and so on. I was unfamiliar with the story of Caeneus.

So when watching the show, I thought he was just some normal human guy who got sent to the underworld. I thought he was a very "soft/gentle looking" man. Early on in one of the episodes, he talked about his family being part of the Amazons, which make boys leave the group at eleven. But Caeneus mentions to one of the main characters that he left at like 15 or so. And she asked why and he gave an answer about "finding out later" or something and I was like "are they seriously gonna do a trans thing?" And yep, they did a trans thing (which was more certain later on than just that "hinty" line). I figured that small line of dialogue might have been the end of that, but no, in episode 6, there is a flashback to Caeneus when he was younger and living in the compound. And the story goes that his mother "realized who 'he' is" and that "he" needed to leave (since it was a "female only compound" and since "he" has a magical boysoul, "he" could not be there), and that there is a woman in Crete that could "help 'him'" (aka trans him...). It felt like some kind of cheesy "my family accepts me for who I am" TIP fanfiction in the middle of this cool Greek mythology based show. (As a side note, I am amused to find a Reddit thread that had a few people confused about the whole trans storyline.)

Then my partner and I argued about whether or not the actor who played Caeneus is a TIF or a man. My partner was extremely adamant the actor was a man lol. I eventually was like "yeah, I guess he looks quite like a man, a very 'soft' man, but yeah." I thought his voice sounded like a man's. In one episode, he was shirtless for some scenes and I didn't see any mastectomy scars so I was like "oh I guess he is a man?" (No, I guess the actress just got a really high quality mastectomy? Ngl the strange hair growth pattern around the nipples and the large nipples themselves did give me a bit of a pause, but then again, I don't really seek out pictures of bare men's chests, so I figured I just haven't seen enough male chests lol.) So uh, yeah, I was fooled and my partner was definitely fooled. Idk why I want to bring this up, but I guess because on Ovarit they constantly like to say "we can always tell!" and like, I just don't think that's true. They claim TIFs have "froggy voices," I didn't think this TIF had one... There were very few things about Caeneus' actress that made me think they were a TIF. I think she passes as a man quite well. (Though a fair amount of TIFs do, by virtue of it being easier to have women look like men than men look like women.)

Why bring this up? Well, because this show is all about the Greek gods and their stories. A modern retelling of their stories. The Gods and Goddesses are sociopathic violent narcissists, just like in the myths. They are sadistic and cruel and bizarre. It's what makes the show "charming" (as in, unique) and engaging. And while I thought the whole "trans" story was pretty stupid to add in just from my views on transgenderism, when I looked up the actual mythology of Caeneus, I thought it was even more stupid that they chose to contort the original myth into a transgender story.

Side note: this is how Wikipedia writes about the myth of Caeneus:
Wikipedia on Caeneus In Greek mythology, Caeneus [...] was a Lapith hero, ruler of Thessaly, and the father of the Argonaut Coronus. Caeneus was born a girl, Caenis [...], the daughter of Elatus, but after Poseidon had sex with Caenis, she was transformed by Poseidon into an invulnerable man.

I am aware Wikipedia is all-in on the gender woowoo train, so I guess they "positively trans-washed" the myth of Caeneus to remove the fact this Greek hero was raped and that was why she wanted to become a man.

A.S. Kline's Metamorphosis: Bk XII:146-209 Nestor tells the story of Caeneus-Caenis ‘Elatus’s daughter, Caenis, loveliest of the virgins of Thessaly, was famous for her beauty, a girl longed for in vain, the object of many suitors throughout the neighbouring cities and your own (since she was one of your people, Achilles). Perhaps Peleus also would have tried to wed her, but he had already taken your mother in marriage, or she was promised to your father. Caenis would not agree to any marriage, but (so rumour has it) she was walking along a lonely beach, and the god took her by force. When Neptune had enjoyed his new love he said: “Make your wish, without fear of refusal. Ask for what you most want!” (The same rumour mentioned this.)

‘“This injury evokes the great desire never to be able to suffer any such again. Grant I might not be a woman: you will have given me everything,” Caenis said. She spoke the last words in a deeper tone, that might have been the sound of a man’s voice. So it was: the god of the deep ocean had already accepted her wish, and had granted, over and above it, that as a man Caeneus would be protected from all wounds, and never fall to the sword. Caeneus, the Atracides, left, happy with his gifts, and spent his time in manly pastimes, roaming the Thessalian fields.
https://ovid.lib.virginia.edu/trans/Metamorph12.htm#486225989

Patterns of Rape in Ovid’s Metamorphoses by Nikki Bloch Ovid’s seemingly modern understanding of gender and sexuality is perhaps best appreciated in the myth of Caeneus, the mythical hero who was once the beautiful woman Caenis. Raped by Neptune, Caenis is granted the wish to never again be able to suffer in this way, to no longer be a woman (12.202).

Even in the "So confused..." Reddit thread about Caeneus in r/KaosNetflix, someone wrote:
Snoo_58387 I wish they had kept the the original myth about Caeneus. That would provide more complexity to the character and stronger reason to take part of the plan.

For the ones who don't know the myth, which can be found in Ovidius' Metamorphoses, Caeneus was born as a girl, Caenis, who was one day raped by Poseidon. After the assault, the god granted her a wish and Caenis asked to be turned into a man, not to fall victim of rape anymore.

This show pulls no punches with the gods sadistically killing and torturing humans. They also have Hera make Zeus kill his own newly-born demigod baby. And that was more like a footnote than any main plot point. And yet, instead of exploring the violent misogyny of the Gods and what it means to live as a woman in terms of sexual violence and rape culture, through the original myth of Caeneus that could have been told in a modern light, the show writers decided to completely turn this myth into an "uwu twans feelgood" storyline. Sad. Of course, why would they care about shining a light on misogyny and rape culture? That's sooooo passé. I mean, everybody knows that rape of women and misogyny were solved in the modern day when, like the myth of Caeneus, we realized we could "turn women into men!" Praise transgenderism!

I think there are a few things that are even more sad, regarding the actress who plays Caeneus, Misia Butler.

For one, Misia had an interview where she talked about playing Caeneus on Kaos and actually said that learning about Caeneus from a teacher is what encouraged her to transition:
Quote:When asked how he relates to Caeneus' story, Butler shared that the role "spoke to [his] ability to be an empowered trans man:"
Quote:"I remember when I was a kid learning about it in school, and I had a specific teacher who, I think, knew what she was doing. She gave me this translation of this ancient text, and it was this character that was in that text being told that he wasn't good enough because he was born female and he shouldn't be fighting with the men, and then he defeats them all really easily. And I just felt really empowered by that as a story because it spoke to my ability to be an empowered trans man, basically."
 https://thedirect.com/article/kaos-caeneus-trans-netflix-misia-butler-exclusive

Quote:Let’s talk about KAOS. What were your initial thoughts when the series was first mentioned to you?
“In 2018, when they first announced that Charlie Covell was going to be adapting Greek myths into a series on Netflix, pretty much every single one of my friends sent me the link to the news story. They were like, ‘You have to do this!’ And I was like, ‘I mean, imagine if they wrote a part for me. How crazy would that be?!’ Then in 2020 I received the audition sides and discovered that it was a Greek myth that I have been obsessed with since I was a kid. They described the role as a lead and I was like, ‘Oh, no, I’m going to be way too invested in this. This is so scary!’ Then the whole process took a lot longer, but at the beginning of 2022 I finally got the call saying that I’d got the role and I cried. It was insane! Again, fate feels like a really big part of this whole process. I’m still waiting for someone to tell me that it’s all a joke and to pull the rug from underneath me!”

[...]

What was it like to inhabit your character Caeneus?

“It felt so natural. I feel so blessed, not only to have the context of this show and all the amazing people who are involved, but to have a character that really felt like me. It felt like a big privilege. I’ve done bits and pieces before, but this definitely felt like the mammoth of work compared to what I’ve done before. That can be terrifying, but it felt like this character was someone I really understood and really empathized with and that was beautiful.”
https://thequeerreview.com/2024/08/27/interview-misia-butler-kaos-netflix/

I am wondering if the teacher provided Misia with a "trans-washed" version of the Caeneus story back in school, rather than one that points out the character was raped and that's why she wanted to become a man... I mean, no matter how one spins this, it's just all around depressing.

And then, while trying to figure out if the actor who played Caeneus was a TIF or not, I learned Misia Butler is 24 (born in 2001). And on June 28 2019, she posted on Instagram:
misiabutler, Instagram So I may have forgotten that yesterday was my 1 year post op anniversary so I’m posting today
2018-2001 = 17 years old.

Just weirds me out that teenage girls are getting their breasts removed and identifying with Greek myths about women who got raped and wished to be men to avoid being raped/women and mainsteam society is like "yasssssss quee-- I mean king!!". What a world.


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Mar 5 2025, 12:43 AM
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This is very interesting, and also infuriating. Thank you..
I didn’t know this story, though Greek mythology is full of rape, and full of women who escape being raped by gods by transforming into non-humans (Daphne, most famously), or who are punished for resisting being raped by gods (Cassandra), so I guess this is no surprise.

I wonder if Butler’s mastectomy scars were digitally erased for the show, the way they touch up the signs of ageing or surgery in movie stars.

The desire to flee femaleness and become invulnerable is so common, not only to TIFs but to many of us who never were persuaded it was possible. Someone really should do right by the myth of Caeneus.

As a side note I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex, they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.
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Mar 5 2025, 12:43 AM #2

This is very interesting, and also infuriating. Thank you..
I didn’t know this story, though Greek mythology is full of rape, and full of women who escape being raped by gods by transforming into non-humans (Daphne, most famously), or who are punished for resisting being raped by gods (Cassandra), so I guess this is no surprise.

I wonder if Butler’s mastectomy scars were digitally erased for the show, the way they touch up the signs of ageing or surgery in movie stars.

The desire to flee femaleness and become invulnerable is so common, not only to TIFs but to many of us who never were persuaded it was possible. Someone really should do right by the myth of Caeneus.

As a side note I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex, they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.

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Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM
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Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show. Same reason I've stopped watching Star Trek Discovery (I loved the first season) and possibly Dr Who in the future.
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Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM #3

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Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show. Same reason I've stopped watching Star Trek Discovery (I loved the first season) and possibly Dr Who in the future.

Mar 6 2025, 1:54 AM
#4
(Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM)drdee MORE SPOILERS

Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show. Same reason I've stopped watching Star Trek Discovery (I loved the first season) and possibly Dr Who in the future.

Star Trek Discovery has a lot more wrong with it than the genderspecial kid, but I take your point. Especially as there was an available way to play with notions of sexed souls already in the Trill.

As for Kaos, I think I gave up on it before we met those characters. I am hypersensitive to the abuse of myth and they passed that threshold in the first episode.
wormwood
Mar 6 2025, 1:54 AM #4

(Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM)drdee MORE SPOILERS

Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show. Same reason I've stopped watching Star Trek Discovery (I loved the first season) and possibly Dr Who in the future.

Star Trek Discovery has a lot more wrong with it than the genderspecial kid, but I take your point. Especially as there was an available way to play with notions of sexed souls already in the Trill.

As for Kaos, I think I gave up on it before we met those characters. I am hypersensitive to the abuse of myth and they passed that threshold in the first episode.

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Mar 6 2025, 11:35 AM
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(Mar 5 2025, 12:43 AM)wormwood As a side note I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex,  they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.

Right?! In the show, Hera turns the mothers of Zeus's demigod children into literal bees. Like, we see her do it. And yet somehow, having Caeneus' story follow the myth was out of the question? Well, of course it was, because that would imply that the current transgender "science/medicine" is nowhere near close to making men women or women men, and the show couldn't dare suggest that, it would be transgender blasphemy.

Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?

To be honest, the more I think about the show, the more I feel like maybe the show wasn't really that deep, it was just kind of like a wacky fanfiction of the Greek myths? Maybe I should just accept that as what it is.

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(Mar 5 2025, 12:43 AM)wormwood As a side note I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex,  they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.

Right?! In the show, Hera turns the mothers of Zeus's demigod children into literal bees. Like, we see her do it. And yet somehow, having Caeneus' story follow the myth was out of the question? Well, of course it was, because that would imply that the current transgender "science/medicine" is nowhere near close to making men women or women men, and the show couldn't dare suggest that, it would be transgender blasphemy.

Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?

To be honest, the more I think about the show, the more I feel like maybe the show wasn't really that deep, it was just kind of like a wacky fanfiction of the Greek myths? Maybe I should just accept that as what it is.


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Mar 6 2025, 11:40 AM
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(Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM)drdee Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show.
LOL. I had to look up Eddie Izzard and I realize he was one of the Fates. I can't believe he is using "she/her" pronouns, lol, I thought for the show they just decided that the Fates weren't going to be all women as would be expected because of him playing one. But I guess now, I have to realize I was being a major transphobe and that the blonde hulking man in makeup was actually a stunning and brave woman, not a gender non-conforming man, so I guess the Fates really were all women. :meowderp:

On a side note, I thought the Furies were really cool.

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Mar 6 2025, 11:40 AM #6

(Mar 5 2025, 1:36 PM)drdee Yeah I didn't love that, or the fact that Caeneus turns out to be the special 'magical' character at the end. Or Eddie Izzard. This all put me right off the show.
LOL. I had to look up Eddie Izzard and I realize he was one of the Fates. I can't believe he is using "she/her" pronouns, lol, I thought for the show they just decided that the Fates weren't going to be all women as would be expected because of him playing one. But I guess now, I have to realize I was being a major transphobe and that the blonde hulking man in makeup was actually a stunning and brave woman, not a gender non-conforming man, so I guess the Fates really were all women. :meowderp:

On a side note, I thought the Furies were really cool.


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Mar 6 2025, 11:46 AM
#7
Changing Persephone's myth to be consensual is my personal pet peeve. Maybe it's because it's just been more common lately to hear people say "well actually, Persephone wasn't kidnapped and Demeter was just overprotective." It's the worst mixture of "she wanted it" and "I never got over my mom telling me no as a toddler."
Lemonade
Mar 6 2025, 11:46 AM #7

Changing Persephone's myth to be consensual is my personal pet peeve. Maybe it's because it's just been more common lately to hear people say "well actually, Persephone wasn't kidnapped and Demeter was just overprotective." It's the worst mixture of "she wanted it" and "I never got over my mom telling me no as a toddler."

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Mar 6 2025, 12:04 PM
#8
(Mar 6 2025, 11:35 AM)Clover Right?! In the show, Hera turns the mothers of Zeus's demigod children into literal bees. Like, we see her do it. And yet somehow, having Caeneus' story follow the myth was out of the question? Well, of course it was, because that would imply that the current transgender "science/medicine" is nowhere near close to making men women or women men, and the show couldn't dare suggest that, it would be transgender blasphemy.

Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?

To be honest, the more I think about the show, the more I feel like maybe the show wasn't really that deep, it was just kind of like a wacky fanfiction of the Greek myths? Maybe I should just accept that as what it is.

Omg I don't even watch this show but this pisses me off so much. It's extremely common now in both pop culture and paganism/witchcraft subcultures to rewrite the The Rape of Persephone into a dark romance where Hades is the sexy bad boy, Persephone is the sexy rebel, and Demeter is the nasty Karen who just wants to ruin Persephone's fun. It's a complete perversion of the myth.

People like Greek mythology because it's cool but they don't want to grapple with the fact that basically every Greek god is a depraved serial rapist and Greek culture and philosophy in general was disgustingly misogynistic. I understand wanting to take inspiration from the cool parts of ancient Greece and the aesthetics of it and I don't necessarily have a problem with that. But they way they do it irritates me. If you want to rewrite The Rape of Persephone for a younger or modern audience idk maybe remove the explicit rape part but keep the core of the myth (turn it into a kidnapping or the threat of rape?) instead of rewriting the RAPE OF A CHILD into a sexy forbidden bad boy romance.

/rant over. Sorry. I have been mad about Sexy Bad Boy Hades since like 2012 Tumblr. I was thinking about watching this show and I'm glad I didn't because I would have thrown something at my TV during that Persephone scene.
Edited Mar 6 2025, 12:06 PM by Possum. Edit Reason: quoted wrong
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Mar 6 2025, 12:04 PM #8

(Mar 6 2025, 11:35 AM)Clover Right?! In the show, Hera turns the mothers of Zeus's demigod children into literal bees. Like, we see her do it. And yet somehow, having Caeneus' story follow the myth was out of the question? Well, of course it was, because that would imply that the current transgender "science/medicine" is nowhere near close to making men women or women men, and the show couldn't dare suggest that, it would be transgender blasphemy.

Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?

To be honest, the more I think about the show, the more I feel like maybe the show wasn't really that deep, it was just kind of like a wacky fanfiction of the Greek myths? Maybe I should just accept that as what it is.

Omg I don't even watch this show but this pisses me off so much. It's extremely common now in both pop culture and paganism/witchcraft subcultures to rewrite the The Rape of Persephone into a dark romance where Hades is the sexy bad boy, Persephone is the sexy rebel, and Demeter is the nasty Karen who just wants to ruin Persephone's fun. It's a complete perversion of the myth.

People like Greek mythology because it's cool but they don't want to grapple with the fact that basically every Greek god is a depraved serial rapist and Greek culture and philosophy in general was disgustingly misogynistic. I understand wanting to take inspiration from the cool parts of ancient Greece and the aesthetics of it and I don't necessarily have a problem with that. But they way they do it irritates me. If you want to rewrite The Rape of Persephone for a younger or modern audience idk maybe remove the explicit rape part but keep the core of the myth (turn it into a kidnapping or the threat of rape?) instead of rewriting the RAPE OF A CHILD into a sexy forbidden bad boy romance.

/rant over. Sorry. I have been mad about Sexy Bad Boy Hades since like 2012 Tumblr. I was thinking about watching this show and I'm glad I didn't because I would have thrown something at my TV during that Persephone scene.

Mar 7 2025, 1:20 AM
#9
Clover Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?
I tried watching Kaos a while ago and, while I thought it was interesting, I sort of lost track of it at some point? I don’t think I got through more than a couple episodes. I thought I might give it another go eventually, but now I don’t know if I care to given what they’ve done to Persephone
 i hate this

That story is about a young girl, who is violently kidnapped and raped, and her mother, who almost literally lets the world burn just to save her. The actual feminist retellings basically write themselves, but everyone ignores them.

Lemonade Changing Persephone's myth to be consensual is my personal pet peeve. Maybe it's because it's just been more common lately to hear people say "well actually, Persephone wasn't kidnapped and Demeter was just overprotective." It's the worst mixture of "she wanted it" and "I never got over my mom telling me no as a toddler."
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I hate this trend of rewriting the story of Demeter and Persephone as a love story between Persephone and Hades. I HATE it. Turning the male rapist villain of the story into a hero and turning the actual original hero, the mother who just wanted to protect her daughter from sexual abuse, into an overprotective villain? That’s astonishingly misogynistic. And these people try to pass off their new retelling of the story as “feminist”, because they give Persephone “agency”. Though I guess that’s liberal feminism in a nutshell: repackaging misogyny as empowering and feminist.

Gosh, these stupid romance retellings, like Lore Olympus, just really get on my nerves. If you want to actually retell the myth with a feminist twist maybe make a version in which she finally escapes him to reunite with her mother permanently, or gets rid of him and rules the underworld alone.

Possum /rant over. Sorry. I have been mad about Sexy Bad Boy Hades since like 2012 Tumblr. I was thinking about watching this show and I'm glad I didn't because I would have thrown something at my TV during that Persephone scene.
Ugh, please rant more. I, too, am fed up with the “Sexy Bad Boy Hades” thing and think people need to get more vocal about this absolute butchering of one of the few Greek myths centered around a close bond between a mother and her daughter.
periwinkle
Mar 7 2025, 1:20 AM #9

Clover Following along on this note, and your earlier comment about how there are so many rape stories in the Greek myths, there was actually shockingly little to no rape in this series. And I don't know how to feel about that, as in I don't really want to complain about it, because I hate when women are raped on shows for entertainment purposes. But, these are the Greek myths. And they even went out of their way to "unrape" a myth—Persephone had to have a dialogue with some of the gods where she talked about how she was appalled that the humans were making assumptions that she was held against her will by Hades, or even raped by Hades. Like, in her dialogue, she literally had to point out how appalling it was that the humans thought that she was raped by Hades. Completely changing the myth, because "rape bad, let's pretend it never happens"? It's almost like the show writers wanted to live in a fantasy world where they don't have to think about misogyny?? Rapes no more! Yeah, I never thought I'd find myself in a position where I would be complaining about the lack of rape in a show, this is so weird to write about, but surely there has to be some line between "let's show women getting raped for the viewers entertainment and shock value wheeee" and "rape never happens, let's not think about it"?
I tried watching Kaos a while ago and, while I thought it was interesting, I sort of lost track of it at some point? I don’t think I got through more than a couple episodes. I thought I might give it another go eventually, but now I don’t know if I care to given what they’ve done to Persephone
 i hate this

That story is about a young girl, who is violently kidnapped and raped, and her mother, who almost literally lets the world burn just to save her. The actual feminist retellings basically write themselves, but everyone ignores them.

Lemonade Changing Persephone's myth to be consensual is my personal pet peeve. Maybe it's because it's just been more common lately to hear people say "well actually, Persephone wasn't kidnapped and Demeter was just overprotective." It's the worst mixture of "she wanted it" and "I never got over my mom telling me no as a toddler."
💯💯💯

I hate this trend of rewriting the story of Demeter and Persephone as a love story between Persephone and Hades. I HATE it. Turning the male rapist villain of the story into a hero and turning the actual original hero, the mother who just wanted to protect her daughter from sexual abuse, into an overprotective villain? That’s astonishingly misogynistic. And these people try to pass off their new retelling of the story as “feminist”, because they give Persephone “agency”. Though I guess that’s liberal feminism in a nutshell: repackaging misogyny as empowering and feminist.

Gosh, these stupid romance retellings, like Lore Olympus, just really get on my nerves. If you want to actually retell the myth with a feminist twist maybe make a version in which she finally escapes him to reunite with her mother permanently, or gets rid of him and rules the underworld alone.

Possum /rant over. Sorry. I have been mad about Sexy Bad Boy Hades since like 2012 Tumblr. I was thinking about watching this show and I'm glad I didn't because I would have thrown something at my TV during that Persephone scene.
Ugh, please rant more. I, too, am fed up with the “Sexy Bad Boy Hades” thing and think people need to get more vocal about this absolute butchering of one of the few Greek myths centered around a close bond between a mother and her daughter.

Mar 21 2025, 9:20 AM
#10
I had no idea about the motherly themes in the original. Makes it all the more infuriating that it's never addressed.
Quote:Greek culture and philosophy in general was disgustingly misogynistic.

Most people had no idea that Greece treated women the way Saudi Arabia does - specifically having to be veiled in public and also having their own house quarters away from men. Military cultures ironically tend to treat women slightly less bad because when the men are so dedicated to war and frequently away they can't afford to completely isolate women from the public life. Though this often gets used to characterise them as bastions of feminism, when they're literally just standard levels of misogyny. For example, in both Viking and Spartan cultures, women had inheritance rights only if all the men were dead (which didn't stop the narrative that women's unprecedented financial freedom caused the downfall of Sparta).

I honestly wonder if it's good for people to believe things used to be different, because then it doesn't feel so normalised and unavoidable. It also makes it more common to have stories in these settings where women can go adventuring and do stuff, instead of being treated like shit (though I will also say the other side of the coin to "women being treated like shit" should be "men are shit", which almost no media is willing to have as its main theme, unless it's in the sense of "boys will be boys"). It makes normal life feel accessible to girls instead of fearmongering them from their youngest years or telling them how abused they are going to be. It also decouples extreme misogyny from popularily macho cultures when men in them are portrayed as egalitarian. 

On the other hand, it also gets used to gaslight women and downplay the continuous prevalence of misogyny throughout our culture and history. Incel and MRA rants feel a lot more hollow when you realise they're almost word-for-word identical to rants from fucking ancient Greece, than when you think things used to be relatively okay and now they might be getting out of hand. There hasn't been a time when men weren't talking about how out of hand women's rights were getting, regardless of how badly women were treated. Men in Saudi Arabia are the most likely to state in polls that women are treated fairly, for Christ's sake!

Quote:I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex, they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.

Right? I like the idea of stories that use magic or alternate reality to explore and criticise our ideas about gender or sex. But using them as evidence of how valid magical sex transformations are irl is just insane. Like, no, you weren't turned into the opposite sex by the gods just because you neutered yourself and induced a hormonal imbalance in your body. Nor are you the opposite sex just because people assume you're the opposite sex. It's really indicative of how chronically online these people are because they will see this shit as inspirational, and that you can will a penis into becoming a woman's sex organ just by pretending that it is. Look, someone on Tumblr drew a totally passing TIM that looks identical to a woman, that totally dismantles our binary notions of sex!
Edited Mar 24 2025, 5:28 AM by YesYourNigel.
YesYourNigel
Mar 21 2025, 9:20 AM #10

I had no idea about the motherly themes in the original. Makes it all the more infuriating that it's never addressed.

Quote:Greek culture and philosophy in general was disgustingly misogynistic.

Most people had no idea that Greece treated women the way Saudi Arabia does - specifically having to be veiled in public and also having their own house quarters away from men. Military cultures ironically tend to treat women slightly less bad because when the men are so dedicated to war and frequently away they can't afford to completely isolate women from the public life. Though this often gets used to characterise them as bastions of feminism, when they're literally just standard levels of misogyny. For example, in both Viking and Spartan cultures, women had inheritance rights only if all the men were dead (which didn't stop the narrative that women's unprecedented financial freedom caused the downfall of Sparta).

I honestly wonder if it's good for people to believe things used to be different, because then it doesn't feel so normalised and unavoidable. It also makes it more common to have stories in these settings where women can go adventuring and do stuff, instead of being treated like shit (though I will also say the other side of the coin to "women being treated like shit" should be "men are shit", which almost no media is willing to have as its main theme, unless it's in the sense of "boys will be boys"). It makes normal life feel accessible to girls instead of fearmongering them from their youngest years or telling them how abused they are going to be. It also decouples extreme misogyny from popularily macho cultures when men in them are portrayed as egalitarian. 

On the other hand, it also gets used to gaslight women and downplay the continuous prevalence of misogyny throughout our culture and history. Incel and MRA rants feel a lot more hollow when you realise they're almost word-for-word identical to rants from fucking ancient Greece, than when you think things used to be relatively okay and now they might be getting out of hand. There hasn't been a time when men weren't talking about how out of hand women's rights were getting, regardless of how badly women were treated. Men in Saudi Arabia are the most likely to state in polls that women are treated fairly, for Christ's sake!

Quote:I am always irritated by the trans narratives that embrace magical or divine sex changes from fiction or mythology, because the whole point of these is they are fantasies of actually changing sex, they are as real as turning into rivers, or swans.

Right? I like the idea of stories that use magic or alternate reality to explore and criticise our ideas about gender or sex. But using them as evidence of how valid magical sex transformations are irl is just insane. Like, no, you weren't turned into the opposite sex by the gods just because you neutered yourself and induced a hormonal imbalance in your body. Nor are you the opposite sex just because people assume you're the opposite sex. It's really indicative of how chronically online these people are because they will see this shit as inspirational, and that you can will a penis into becoming a woman's sex organ just by pretending that it is. Look, someone on Tumblr drew a totally passing TIM that looks identical to a woman, that totally dismantles our binary notions of sex!

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