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Article Why ‘walkaway wives’ are leading the charge in midlife divorce

Article Why ‘walkaway wives’ are leading the charge in midlife divorce

 
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9 hours ago
#1
Independent, November 20 2025

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/love-sex/marriage/women-midlife-divorce-b2868372.html

Quote:A new report shows that more women than ever are walking away from their marriages because they have ‘just had enough’. But, while husbands are left in shock after an ‘out-of-the-blue’ divorce, Flic Everett discovers, it is a very different story for their wives

Quote:Rather than put up and shut up, women in midlife are realising that there’s more to life than a grumpy or self-interested husband, and voting with their feet. While men used to initiate more divorces – the classic midlife crisis where they ran off with a younger woman – this has shifted over the past few years. Today, women are as likely to start divorce proceedings, especially in midlife. And more than ever, this is coming out of the blue for their comfortable husbands who had assumed everything was just ticking along nicely.

Quote:The “walkaway wife” phenomenon has been confirmed by a new report. Findings from the law firm Mishcon de Reya, wealth management company Julius Baer, and the midlife community platform NOON show that women are often calling the shots based on nothing more than simply having ‘had enough’.

Nearly 50 per cent of divorces are now being instigated by women, with 56 per cent of them saying they would end a marriage simply because they felt unhappy. Whereas another man or woman entering the scene used to be a triggering factor for divorce, 64 per cent of female respondents said they ended their marriages for reasons other than infidelity. A significant 23 per cent of women reported that falling out of love was at the root of their desire to split, and 11 per cent simply didn’t want to spend the rest of their life with someone with whom they’d grown apart.

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Independent, November 20 2025

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/love-sex/marriage/women-midlife-divorce-b2868372.html

Quote:A new report shows that more women than ever are walking away from their marriages because they have ‘just had enough’. But, while husbands are left in shock after an ‘out-of-the-blue’ divorce, Flic Everett discovers, it is a very different story for their wives

Quote:Rather than put up and shut up, women in midlife are realising that there’s more to life than a grumpy or self-interested husband, and voting with their feet. While men used to initiate more divorces – the classic midlife crisis where they ran off with a younger woman – this has shifted over the past few years. Today, women are as likely to start divorce proceedings, especially in midlife. And more than ever, this is coming out of the blue for their comfortable husbands who had assumed everything was just ticking along nicely.

Quote:The “walkaway wife” phenomenon has been confirmed by a new report. Findings from the law firm Mishcon de Reya, wealth management company Julius Baer, and the midlife community platform NOON show that women are often calling the shots based on nothing more than simply having ‘had enough’.

Nearly 50 per cent of divorces are now being instigated by women, with 56 per cent of them saying they would end a marriage simply because they felt unhappy. Whereas another man or woman entering the scene used to be a triggering factor for divorce, 64 per cent of female respondents said they ended their marriages for reasons other than infidelity. A significant 23 per cent of women reported that falling out of love was at the root of their desire to split, and 11 per cent simply didn’t want to spend the rest of their life with someone with whom they’d grown apart.

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3 hours ago
#2
Marriage as a "forever" thing is an outdated concept to me. It might have made sense in older times when men were expected to provide for their offspring and people had short lifespans. But to marry someone and think that you'll still be in love 10+, 20+ 50+ years from now? Nah. I can think of maybe 2 couples I know who've been together 10+ years and still seem happy or content, and all the others I know really should split up because they can't stand each other any more and haven't for years.
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3 hours ago #2

Marriage as a "forever" thing is an outdated concept to me. It might have made sense in older times when men were expected to provide for their offspring and people had short lifespans. But to marry someone and think that you'll still be in love 10+, 20+ 50+ years from now? Nah. I can think of maybe 2 couples I know who've been together 10+ years and still seem happy or content, and all the others I know really should split up because they can't stand each other any more and haven't for years.

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2 hours ago
#3
Quote: husbands are left in shock after an ‘out-of-the-blue’ divorce
Quote: And more than ever, this is coming out of the blue for their comfortable husbands who had assumed everything was just ticking along nicely.

Something tells me it would feel less as if the divorce came out of nowhere if any of these men could be bothered to pay attention to how their wife is feeling. You have known this woman for years on end, presumably lived together and still couldn't pick up a single clue that she was deeply unhappy? No wonder she is leaving you.
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2 hours ago #3

Quote: husbands are left in shock after an ‘out-of-the-blue’ divorce
Quote: And more than ever, this is coming out of the blue for their comfortable husbands who had assumed everything was just ticking along nicely.

Something tells me it would feel less as if the divorce came out of nowhere if any of these men could be bothered to pay attention to how their wife is feeling. You have known this woman for years on end, presumably lived together and still couldn't pick up a single clue that she was deeply unhappy? No wonder she is leaving you.

56 minutes ago
#4
Reminds me of all the dead bedroom men who just DoN't UnDeRsTaNd why their wife won't have sex with them and can you just give them tips on how to emotionally manipulate her into sex more?

Women are just hard to understand, we just have no clue why they don't want to keep serving entitled men and have shitty sex with them, it just makes no sense! Women are a mystery when you don't recognise that they could possibly look out for their own interests.

Quote:with 56 per cent of them saying they would end a marriage simply because they felt unhappy. 

GRRR imagine ending a relationship because it makes you miserable! The gall!
Edited 49 minutes ago by YesYourNigel.
YesYourNigel
56 minutes ago #4

Reminds me of all the dead bedroom men who just DoN't UnDeRsTaNd why their wife won't have sex with them and can you just give them tips on how to emotionally manipulate her into sex more?

Women are just hard to understand, we just have no clue why they don't want to keep serving entitled men and have shitty sex with them, it just makes no sense! Women are a mystery when you don't recognise that they could possibly look out for their own interests.

Quote:with 56 per cent of them saying they would end a marriage simply because they felt unhappy. 

GRRR imagine ending a relationship because it makes you miserable! The gall!

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