Engage before it dies
Engage before it dies
(Aug 3 2025, 2:05 PM)Clover(Aug 3 2025, 7:44 AM)alefia I want to thank all of you who engaged, and generally help in the fight against the Western disinformation campaign that justifies the genocide of Palestinians.
I am happy to announce that I am on the way to a user score of -200. Do you think this could be used as a reason to get me banned from the platform? I was thinking about creating and sharing a Discord at some point, so maybe I should hurry. Who knows if/when I will be banned.
If you have any ideas for the Discord, please let me know. Once again I am thankful I got to be in this space where I can brainstorm ideas with other women.
Check out the RadLeft Unity Discord server if you haven't already! đ
(Aug 3 2025, 2:05 PM)Clover(Aug 3 2025, 7:44 AM)alefia I want to thank all of you who engaged, and generally help in the fight against the Western disinformation campaign that justifies the genocide of Palestinians.
I am happy to announce that I am on the way to a user score of -200. Do you think this could be used as a reason to get me banned from the platform? I was thinking about creating and sharing a Discord at some point, so maybe I should hurry. Who knows if/when I will be banned.
If you have any ideas for the Discord, please let me know. Once again I am thankful I got to be in this space where I can brainstorm ideas with other women.
Check out the RadLeft Unity Discord server if you haven't already! đ
(Jul 31 2025, 12:20 PM)alefia I opened a discussion on vexxed about how a sovereign Palestinian State would benefit women and girls. I kept it short in case it gets deleted:Â https://vexxed.org/o/Women/3446/unpopular-opinion-palestinian-women-and-girls-deserve-a-sovereign-state
I didn't address the elephant in the room on purpose also to prevent it from being deleted.Â
In my short experience on the website, I have gotten comments/posts deleted, and my user's score---whatever that means---is on the way to -50. Maybe I can even reach -100, I'm feeling confident.
That being said, I'm very tempted to do a social biases characterization study based on text data from vexxed.
(Jul 31 2025, 12:20 PM)alefia I opened a discussion on vexxed about how a sovereign Palestinian State would benefit women and girls. I kept it short in case it gets deleted:Â https://vexxed.org/o/Women/3446/unpopular-opinion-palestinian-women-and-girls-deserve-a-sovereign-state
I didn't address the elephant in the room on purpose also to prevent it from being deleted.Â
In my short experience on the website, I have gotten comments/posts deleted, and my user's score---whatever that means---is on the way to -50. Maybe I can even reach -100, I'm feeling confident.
That being said, I'm very tempted to do a social biases characterization study based on text data from vexxed.
(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Omg, OP, I'm so upset that you seem to have a score of -121 points on Vexxed. :( Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.Hey, welcome! I've some of your comments on Vexxed and have been looking forward to seeing your comments there, but also felt like you're kind of wasting your breath on what is fundamentally a stupid, close-minded audience that is never going to approach anything critically.
(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Omg, OP, I'm so upset that you seem to have a score of -121 points on Vexxed. :( Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.Hey, welcome! I've some of your comments on Vexxed and have been looking forward to seeing your comments there, but also felt like you're kind of wasting your breath on what is fundamentally a stupid, close-minded audience that is never going to approach anything critically.
(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
(Sep 28 2025, 1:33 PM)Magpie The admins are currently still working on the women's liberation circle, so the old division could still come back. I'm just hoping they picked actual feminists for their mod team đ€Honestly, once you censor and ban actual feminist women for not coddling conservative shithead handmaidens enough, I don't think you're getting them back. Nor do I see it likely that a forum like Ovarit/Vexxed would ever realise its degree of toxicity and misogyny when this has been actively nurtured by the mods for years all because anti-trans pearclutching and spite trumps any sort of concern for women's rights. Misogyny pays. Feminism doesn't. It's easier to nurture a space for stupid brainwashed women and their Nigels parroting the same shit than a space that demands that this be critically examined.
(Sep 28 2025, 1:33 PM)Magpie The admins are currently still working on the women's liberation circle, so the old division could still come back. I'm just hoping they picked actual feminists for their mod team đ€Honestly, once you censor and ban actual feminist women for not coddling conservative shithead handmaidens enough, I don't think you're getting them back. Nor do I see it likely that a forum like Ovarit/Vexxed would ever realise its degree of toxicity and misogyny when this has been actively nurtured by the mods for years all because anti-trans pearclutching and spite trumps any sort of concern for women's rights. Misogyny pays. Feminism doesn't. It's easier to nurture a space for stupid brainwashed women and their Nigels parroting the same shit than a space that demands that this be critically examined.
(Sep 28 2025, 7:55 PM)YesYourNigel Honestly, once you censor and ban actual feminist women for not coddling conservative shithead handmaidens enough, I don't think you're getting them back. Nor do I see it likely that a forum like Ovarit/Vexxed would ever realise its degree of toxicity and misogyny when this has been actively nurtured by the mods for years all because anti-trans pearclutching and spite trumps any sort of concern for women's rights. Misogyny pays. Feminism doesn't. It's easier to nurture a space for stupid brainwashed women and their Nigels parroting the same shit than a space that demands that this be critically examined.
(Sep 28 2025, 7:55 PM)YesYourNigel Honestly, once you censor and ban actual feminist women for not coddling conservative shithead handmaidens enough, I don't think you're getting them back. Nor do I see it likely that a forum like Ovarit/Vexxed would ever realise its degree of toxicity and misogyny when this has been actively nurtured by the mods for years all because anti-trans pearclutching and spite trumps any sort of concern for women's rights. Misogyny pays. Feminism doesn't. It's easier to nurture a space for stupid brainwashed women and their Nigels parroting the same shit than a space that demands that this be critically examined.
(Sep 29 2025, 8:47 AM)Magpie It might be ill-advised but I'm reserving judgment until they announce the mod team. If they leave the women's liberation circle in the hands of some actual feminists I'm willing to give it one last chance. I owe the original r/GenderCritical for introducting me to radical feminism so I'd hate to see one of its successors get taken over by conservatives completely. The fact that they waited so long to create this circle in the first place doesn't make me feel optimistic about it either, though. (And I do agree with your general assessment of Ovarit/Vexxed, if that wasn't clear.)
(Sep 29 2025, 8:47 AM)Magpie It might be ill-advised but I'm reserving judgment until they announce the mod team. If they leave the women's liberation circle in the hands of some actual feminists I'm willing to give it one last chance. I owe the original r/GenderCritical for introducting me to radical feminism so I'd hate to see one of its successors get taken over by conservatives completely. The fact that they waited so long to create this circle in the first place doesn't make me feel optimistic about it either, though. (And I do agree with your general assessment of Ovarit/Vexxed, if that wasn't clear.)
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Omg, OP, I'm so upset that you seem to have a score of -121 points on Vexxed. :( Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.Hey, welcome! I've some of your comments on Vexxed and have been looking forward to seeing your comments there, but also felt like you're kind of wasting your breath on what is fundamentally a stupid, close-minded audience that is never going to approach anything critically.
Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Omg, OP, I'm so upset that you seem to have a score of -121 points on Vexxed. :( Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.Hey, welcome! I've some of your comments on Vexxed and have been looking forward to seeing your comments there, but also felt like you're kind of wasting your breath on what is fundamentally a stupid, close-minded audience that is never going to approach anything critically.
Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
(Sep 28 2025, 1:33 PM)Magpie(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.
It's understandable you feel that way with the userbase being what it is, but I just wanted to say that personally I do really appreciate your contributions there, and I would appreciate them here also ;). You'll get used to the format!
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
The admins are currently still working on the women's liberation circle, so the old division could still come back. I'm just hoping they picked actual feminists for their mod team đ€
(Sep 28 2025, 1:33 PM)Magpie(Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM)dobby Sometimes I feel like me posting on that site or sharing about it with others has been such a pointless effort tbh. I feel like I annoy most people there anyway lol. It sucks though because I feel like the reddit-like format is just a lot easier for me to read through. I wish it was easier to get more actual feminists to join us on Vexxed.
It's understandable you feel that way with the userbase being what it is, but I just wanted to say that personally I do really appreciate your contributions there, and I would appreciate them here also ;). You'll get used to the format!
(Sep 28 2025, 8:57 AM)YesYourNigel Vexxed seems even worse than Ovarit was in terms of conservativism, and that's saying something. It feels like on Ovarit there was at least a group of radical women who posted in radfem subs, with the conservatives being primarily in GenderCritical, but there doesn't seem to be that division anymore. It just seems dominated by pearl-clutching old women and controlling mothers complaining about their Nigels getting cancelled and their kids being disobedient.
The admins are currently still working on the women's liberation circle, so the old division could still come back. I'm just hoping they picked actual feminists for their mod team đ€
(Sep 29 2025, 9:46 AM)YesYourNigel These GC communities love to prop up the occasional gender nonconforming woman as a gotcha that proves "You can just be GNC and not transition!" to show how enlightened they are and to draw in more women like that who might otherwise flirt with transitioning, while not actually caring one bit to question the system itself and why it makes so many girls and women want to disappear from it.Â
(Sep 29 2025, 9:46 AM)YesYourNigel These GC communities love to prop up the occasional gender nonconforming woman as a gotcha that proves "You can just be GNC and not transition!" to show how enlightened they are and to draw in more women like that who might otherwise flirt with transitioning, while not actually caring one bit to question the system itself and why it makes so many girls and women want to disappear from it.Â